I met my wife while we were in university. I had been playing with both men and women for some years by then but had never admitted it to anyone. If I was with a girl they thought I was straight and I often went to find sexual relief with men if I didn't have a girl-friend but never told anyone about that side of my life.
When I met Linda however I knew that it would have to be different. For one thing she was up front with me from the beginning that she had been with more than one man at a time and intended to keep on that way. She made it clear that if that was a problem for me there would be no real future together. Knowing this I assured her that it was okay with me and we began and continued to have a very adventurous sex life.
One of the first times we actually had a 3some together occurred when we went to a symposium at Trent university. We traveled up to Peterborough on a Friday night and got a cheap motel room to share. We attended the symposium all day Saturday and would be back at it again Sunday before going back home. Saturday night there was a reception at the university for all of us and after a nice dinner and sometime socializing things started to break up about 10 pm.
During conversation at the reception we had been told about the fact that Trent had a coed sauna on campus. We had asked about it and got directions as well as being told that it stayed open till midnight. With that in mind we decided to check it out. We got towels from our motel and returned to the campus to find the sauna. After a few wrong turns we found it and although we didn't have any swim suits with us we stripped to our underwear and wrapped the towels around us and went in to relax.
We had been in there for about 5 minutes when the door opened and another man walked in. He looked at Linda startled and asked what she was doing there. He then explained that although there was a coed sauna the one we were in was supposed to be for men only at which point Linda said she would be glad to leave. John, that was his name, said he didn't mind if she didn't and also said it would be unlikely for anyone else to show up that late. With that we sat back down and began talking.