My wife Cindy and I had enjoyed our nude beach adventure so much that we decided we would push our boundaries a little farther. We had decided earlier that if we ever got to the point we didn't want to continue, we could stop. The experience would be something we shared together but if it made us unhappy, we would never speak of it again. So far however, we were having so much fun with this pushing of our boundaries. We seemed to be getting closer and more intimate with each new thing we tried and we felt like teenagers again. The fun and excitement seemed to be coming back into our marriage.
To turn things up a notch, I came up with a fun, safe game for us to try which involves another man. That game is below.
GAME DIRECTIONS
Dress up and go to a hotel bar if it is busy. If not busy, we find a local bar that is busy. She and I sit separately.
Goal:
1) She slips her ring in her purse or somewhere else. She is then to allow any guy she thinks is attractive in some way (eyes, smile, muscles, butt cheeks, personality, etc.), who approaches her to sit with her. She allows him to flirt with her and she flirts with him with the goal of getting him to buy her a drink and possibly even a meal if she has not already eaten at that time. The minimum goal for number 1 though is to get him to buy her a drink.
2) She is to flirt with him enough to get him to ask her to go dancing or to go back to his room (or other location if we are not in the hotel bar.)
If he asks her to go dancing, she can go (or not) depending on what she decides at that time. If yes, they should drive separately due to the safety aspect, to whatever location he suggests. He should send her the address which she will discreetly text to me and then I will find a ride separately. This will allow me to also enjoy watching her and him dance and flirt on the dance floor or back at the table.
Note: I told her I am OK with him kissing her if she is OK with it.
If he asks her back to his room (or other location,) the following are a few possible initial actions she can do. I have listed other options in a separate article, but at the time we took our first adventure, these were the two actions we had agreed on.
ACTONS
1) She can say something along the lines of, "You know, I have had such a good time laughing and chatting with you tonight. I am married however. My husband and I are exploring the pushing of our boundaries but I am not yet at a point where I would feel comfortable doing something like that. If you are interested, give me your email and if I ever do get to the point where I am ready to take that step, I will drop you a line. I am often travelling to this town so who knows, we may cross paths again.
Or
2) She can say something like, "How about instead of going back to your room, we go back to mine. One thing you need to know however. I am married and my husband is there and has to be included in anything we do. He heterosexual, but is OK with any incidental contact that might occur. We have been talking about it for awhile now, and he would be happy if I brought a man back to try out a threesome. Is that something you are interested in?"
If he says yes, she brings him back to our room. If we are in a bar which is not at the hotel, she can have him follow her back to our hotel. Then, once he and I have met and we have chatted a bit and had a few drinks, maybe she flirts a little more with him we can take a further action similar to the following.
1) She (or I) can tell him that this is our first time in attempting to have a threesome, and that she (or I) am just not ready to take that step. We can then say something like, "If I haven't upset you too bad, I would love to have your email info. I really do think we might be able to take this to the next step one day and since we often travel to this city, we would love to meet with you again."
We can also consider other further actions in the moment if we are both OK with it.
If the third is concerned about his safety in coming to our room, she can tell him he can text or call anyone he wants and tell them our room number and hotel. He can also take a picture of me when I answer the door and send that to his friend. Another option if he prefers, is if I meet them in the lobby so he can take the picture. We don't have to worry about the picture ever being used inappropriately because it will just be me fully dressed. It should however, give him peace of mind that we are not trying to rob him or steal a kidney or something like that.
Our first time playing this game:
We decided to try the first step in our home town. There was a hotel in the downtown area that had a bar which always seemed to have a lot of activity going on due to the large number of people who came through on business or pleasure.
We both got dressed in nice clothes. Cindy's were especially nice. She wore a low cut dress which also showed off her long sexy legs. She went without a bra which I always find so sexy. She was fucking hot.
We went in separately to the bar. I found a table with a good view of where Cindy was sitting. Now I was just waiting for the fun to start.
The following I have written with Cindy's input as I was not able to hear all that was said.
After awhile, a waitress came over and gave her a menu. She ordered water and started looking over the menu. When the waitress returned, Cindy ordered fish and chips, along with a margarita. She then pulled out her phone and began thumbing through emails.
Not long after this, our first fish bit the hook. He looked to be about 10 years older than Cindy, and he was somewhat overweight. He asked if she were alone and she told him she was expecting someone. He smiled and excused himself.
It was not long until a late twenty/early thirty-ish man sauntered over to where Cindy sat. He was built like a runner, tall, thin, athletic looking. He had a square jaw and a baby face that women seem to love.
