I told her how much I loved to go down on a woman. "I mean, really, how can you go straight to the pussy lips. You have to spend time on the thighs, licking, tasting, feeling the heat coming off her. You have to linger, making the anticipation greater for both of you. I rub my cheek into her thigh, then turn my head and kiss her inner thigh. I open mouth kiss her thigh. I lick her thigh. I close mouth kiss her thigh. I taste her. You know, women have different tastes, but they all taste great. Really!
"Then, you can start with just a flat lick, first on the lips themselves. I spend a lot of time here, making things really wet. I lick the lips and try not to swallow. It's about getting ready, not about making her come. I have to show that I appreciate what I'm being given. I soak the lips with my juice. After I've done that, I move down, down to the area below her lips and I lick the perineum to the top of the lips. Not always. You have to feel this one out, with the girl. How willing is she, how far is she willing to trust you and how freaky she is.
"Then, I move back to the lips of her pussy. You can't miss a part of it. You soak the lips with your saliva. You make the noise, that obscene sound of licking and you let your partner's lips open up for you. I mean, sex is about the noise, too. It isn't just about feeling. It's about hearing, too. So, you have to hear the sound of your licking. And, every now and then, you have to tell her how great she tastes, how wonderful you find the color of her labia, how you could spend eternity looking inside her.
"But, back to eating. It's glorious, that moment when the lips separate on their own.
"Or, you can start there. It depends on how long you want it to last. You use your tongue to part the lips and let your tongue search out the hard nubbin of the clit. You take the clit into your mouth and push it to one side with your tongue, then the other side. This is the prize. This is where you spend your time. I'll sometimes take the clit between my lips and suck on it, sometimes softly and, after I have spent more time soft sucking it, and I'm talking about minutes, not seconds, I'll do it harder. I'll hold the clit between my lips and let my tongue lash it, swishing back and forth and gathering up my saliva and her juices to bathe her clit. You really have to let the woman tell you. And, by this, I mean how her hips move, how she moans, how ready she seems for you to move on. When I have the woman's lips opened, when I have her clit in my mouth, I use my saliva to suck her clit into my mouth and swish it around.
"Every now and then, you have to stop, to let the moment build. I move my mouth over to her thigh and kiss it, again, open mouth, usually. I want to keep that wet contact with her, even as I'm letting things cool off for a moment.