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I was on one of those internet dating sites, yes I know I have heard it all before. I am an attractive guy, fit, toned, not a muscle head, not fat and not skinny. I don't have problems meeting women, but I have a very wacky schedule at work that makes it harder for me to go out (4 am to lunch time). I could date within work, but I am not fully comfortable with the rumors that might go around and we all know they do. So that is what brings me to try internet dating.
I have been on this one site for a while and have met a lot of cool people and a lot more not so cool people. I used to look in the dating and relationship section, cause deep down inside that is what I want, but I know I have a very high sex drive and my mind is a lot more open to exploration sexually then most people. The people in those sections are tame and I find not very open-minded. So now I usually only venture in the intimate encounters section. I am not only looking for sex as I stated above, but with my drive, it is very important to me and any relationship I am in (short-term or long-term).
I don't consider myself a male slut, but I have had many a sexual experiences, most women I meet can see my experience and I usually end up being the teacher. (Well there was this one time that I met my match, but that is another story, message me if you want me to write about it, it is kind of funny). Being the teacher is fine with me, but I have learned from that site and my experiences, what I want and I know what turns me on. I find that a lot of people hide behind their computers on these sites with a web of lies. Now to me, if you can't be honest, that is so sad and if you are lonely, lying isn't going to make it any better. But I am an optimist, so I still search.........
I got home from work one day, fired up my computer and grabbed something to eat. I got into something more comfortable and logged on to the dating site. Off to the intimate encounters section I thought to myself. I sifted through some of the profiles, and I hit this one that was so vague, two lines only, but it was the best two lines I had read all day.
It went something like this:
'I want someone with new ideas and fun twists. Exciting new experiences wanted!! I like to explore!'
I read about her personal details. She was 32, 2 years older then me. She stood 5'6" with what she claimed to be a fit body. From my experiences on this site I don't believe people and how they perceive their own body type, my idea of fit can be totally different then someone else's. I usually wait to see a picture of them before I make that judgment and she didn't have one posted, but I do give them the benefit of the doubt. Honestly I don't have a picture posted either, not that I am scared to, I am Casino Dealer and I work in the public eye, so that is why I opted not to post one. I have pictures to send people, because I know how important physical attraction is. I sifted through some more profiles, but kept coming back to hers for another read. Now I know for me that if I keep coming back to one profile, it is a good thing. I probably went back and forth from her profile about half a dozen times.
On the last visit to her profile, there is a part in the profiles that tells a little about themselves sexually, so I read it:
What really turns me on: extended foreplay, oral sex, edible oils.
Encounters I am open to anything goes, oral sex, multiple encounters.
What I am looking for in a partner: always practices safe sex, asks what I want, high-sex drive.
Extended foreplay? Yup, I love to play.
Edible oils? I have used them before and they are fun, especially the Karma Sutra ones that warm when blown on.
Anything goes? Check!! Everything is a go with me.
Multiple encounters? You Bet!! Sex gets better the more you know about your partners secret pleasure spots.
Always practices safe sex? Without a doubt.
Asks what I want? I love to please, and if she can tell me anything that would heighten her experience, of course I will do it!!
High-sex drive? UH, HELL YAH!!
Oral sex? LOVE IT!! Sometimes better then sex itself. The visual from oral sex, both giving and receiving, drives me wild.
Now on this site there are little teaser messages you choose from a list and you see if the other person is interested, so I sent one in hopes that my profile intrigued her.
My Little message was:
I couldn't resist: your willingness to experiment.
Ask me about: my fantasy with you.
I got up to go grab a glass of water and when I got back to my computer I had a little teaser from her. Her message was:
I couldn't resist: the confidence that you exude.
Ask me about: my oral fixation.
WOW Girl! More oral comments!! I thought to myself with my deepest oral desires scanning through my head. I had to send this girl a message. Now I don't have the original messages that I sent to her the first time, but I do remember what they consisted of.
I wrote to see if she had MSN and if she wanted to get to know each other a bit better through MSN. I new it was only about 1:30 pm and most people are at work at that time, but I asked if she wanted to chat when she got off work. I also had to comment on her oral fixation, because that is a big one for me and it looked like it was for her. I told her how giving oral was a total visual and mental experience for me. How I loved to look as she exposed herself to me, the look of her clit, the sensations a kiss can give her and how her clit and lips reacted to the sensations of my touch. I told her how the whole process of a woman's orgasm was a mind fuck for me. Watching her legs start to shake and how her tummy starts to clench as she nears her awaiting orgasm. Then the release and how her hips would bounce while she orgasms, the sounds, the smells and the taste of her orgasm. I ended the note off by telling her my name: Chris
She replied, I opened her message with urgency and anticipation. She explained to me how my first note started to get her all turned on at work. (My mind started to fantasize about her at work. I fantasized about walking into her office as she exposed her wet panties to me from within her skirt, how the wetness of her pussy would feel on my fingers and how she would taste on my first lick.) She explained to me how much she loved to give oral, how she would slide her tongue over my shaft and balls and the feeling of how I would feel as I got hard in her mouth. She also explained to me that she just moved and hadn't got connected to the internet yet, so she only had it at work and ended it with her name: Tiffany.
I sent her back another message explaining how the visualization of her giving me head was affecting me, and the fantasies I was having about it. I asked what was best for her: to send emails or messages on this site. After that message was sent, I never heard from her again. What happened there? I don't know, well that sucks I thought to myself, I really wanted to get to know her better. Days passed and nothing from her, then about a week later I got a message from her.
Now these are the actual messages that we sent to each other:
Subject: your fantasy
Hi,
We exchanged messages a little while ago. I am interested in hearing your fantasy about me.
I have just moved and I am still having problems with my internet connection at home, so work is the only place I can check it. Telus has promised me by Monday it will be corrected.
PS I would love to see a picture of you.
Tiffany
Well hi again