I'm not real sure sure that I would do things the same way if given the opportunity for a redo. I'm pretty certain I'd have made my play sooner.
I had been close friends with a woman for years, we were both single parents and would step in to help out when the other needed a hand. She had 2 girls she was raising and I had my son. We would get together for a big family dinner and catch up once every month or so. Overall it was a good friendship, but truth be told, she had a great ass that I caught myself admiring a little too frequently.
We will call her "Kat" and I am Dan. Kat, you see, is a handful. Late 30's 5'2" tall, broad shoulders from her years of swimming, that great ass I spoke of, and this amazing set of tits. Her long dark brown hair was curly and sexy, and her brown eyes brought out the natural color in her skin.
So anyway, one this day, Kat was over my place and the kids were off playing. We discussed some work stuff and she expressed some interest in my other activities. I told her about the lady I was dating, and I thought I caught a sense of interest... I moved on, stereotypically clueless as to the interest of a woman. A few minutes later, Kat steered the conversation back to the woman I'd been seeing.
"So, is this a serious thing or what? I mean, you've got to be getting ready to settle down at some point, right?"
"Well," I said "Yeah, eventually I will settle down, but this is extra curricular at best. We are both are looking for a good time, not a long time."
"What daoes that mean? If you're with someone you're WITH them, right?"
"Well, Kat, she likes to be a little... different. We have sex in public, and we like to go "push the boundaries" a little. We will go to a bar, and I will give her challenges she has to meet while at the bar."
"Huh? What do you mean challenges?"
"OK, so last night we were at Monte's and I ordered her a tequila sunrise and me a Maker's Mark on the rocks. I told her she needed to cum at least once before I finished my whisky. She leaned on the corner of the barstool I was on and rubbed herself off. She came three times while I sat there talking to the couple next to me."
"That's disgusting. How did they react?"
"Disgusting? no, it was fucking hot. She had grool to her knees! The couple I was talking to, they flat out asked her if she was OK. Then told me I had quite a night ahead of me."
"OK, I'll give this to you, the idea of doing things is public is hot. Rubbing yourself off on the barstool at Monte's is disgusting."
"Hahaha, Ok, Kat. What would YOU have done?"
"Made you use your hand."
"Ahh, but see, I told her SHE had to do it, that's the fun of it."
"OK then, I would have gone to the bathroom and used the stall."
"OK, but not as sexy as doing it right there in public. Just kind of the things, right?"
"I guess. But I don't see how that works into a routine thing."
"Oh, it's still new. We fuck a lot."
"Gross. You're going to get caught if you fuck in a bar."
"You're so uptight. The whole point is to ALMOST get caught. We went to Priscillas the other night and while we walked around, this little guy was watching her, she took him to the back and him play with her tits and she jerked him off. We were still in the store. On the drive home, I made her strip bare and play with herself until she came. Her punishment for cumming too early was going to be severe. She LOVED it."
"Punishment? like what?"
"Look, Kat, you sure you want to hear this? I don't want you to get any odd ideas. She's a fuck toy and we're both having fun."