This is a cheating story. If you don't enjoy these types of stories please move on. If you stay and read I hope you enjoy, and I would love to hear your feedback.
I recently found out my girlfriend has been cheating on me and I shared the story of the first time I caught her. This is the story of how I believe the urge for her to cheat started.
It started while we were in a long-distance relationship. Things were going great and we were extremely happy. We met here on Reddit, and we would spend hours talking here. One day I noticed a comment from some guy on one of her posts. It was nothing bad, not even flirtatious but she responded and they talked back and forth for a bit. It got me wondering and my head filled with stupid guy insecurity.
I got the smart idea to "test" her, so I set up a fake account and used it for almost two months to build up a decent history before anything. Around the same time I'd met up with a friend of mine from the military who was in town and I got a bunch of pics of him from his phone after borrowing it to transfer a movie he had. I had the idea to "borrow" his pics because of his looks. He's a good looking guy build like a Grecian God and hung like a porn star.
Once I felt like I had enough to be convincing I commented on one of her posts then sent her a message. She didn't message back right away but eventually, she did and we chatted for a bit. After a few messages back and forth of "getting to know her" I talked about hobbies, shows I was into, favorite books, and movies. I used my intimate knowledge of her as her boyfriend to make my alter ego seem like he had so much in common with her. Eventually, she was messaging him daily. Always friendly and nothing flirty at all. Anytime I did try to flirt she would bring up her boyfriend (me)
It took a lot of urging. She was always bringing up the fact that she has a boyfriend. The thing was I kept it cool it was only ever light flirting. I used my knowledge of her and what she likes to lower her defense and go in. It actually took a good 3 months of chatting before she started kind of flirting back, and after sending her a "selfie" I even convinced her to send me a selfie or two. I told her she was gorgeous and she thanked me.
I told her my alter ego's name was Michael and she told me (her boyfriend) about Michael right away. She told me about any time they talked and what they talked about. She told me he flirted a bit but nothing disrespectful and he always stopped when she told him to. She told me he was nothing to worry about.
Then one day we got into a bit of an argument. I was coming to see her but I bought my ticket late and as a result, I'd be there later than expected. That same day I was talking to her as Michael, and she admitted to him she was upset. He talked to her about it calmed her down and they started talking about all the things her boyfriend does that upsets her.
She said I (her boyfriend) was sometimes too nice. She brought up Buffy the Vampire Slayer. She said her boyfriend is too much like Angel (Buffy's main love interest) and sometimes she needed a Spike (Angel's rival bad boy type) in her life. Of course, I took that and ran.
"I have a spike for you," I told her, "you are so hot you know that? Your boyfriend is a lucky guy."
She replied "mmmm you're a naughty boy. Do you want to be my Spike or just give me your spike."
I knew I had her.
"Both," I told her.
"You're just being a perv! Lol!" She said.
"I'm sorry, I don't mean to be," I apologized, "I'm just horny as hell."
"It's ok," She said accepting my apology then asks, "What's got you so worked up bad boy?"
I told her it's just been a while since I've been laid. She says she didn't believe me. I asked her why not.