"Take my cum my gorgeous little slut." The phrase had been echoing in Linda's head all day. She could hear her boyfriend's lust maddened voice crying out the words as she put some milk in her trolley. He had shouted out these fateful words as he drove up hard into her as they made love the night before. As far as Linda was concerned she and Mark had always "made love." She was 32 and in great shape. Five five with lustrous dark hair, smokey eyes and curves in all the right places she was never short of male admirers but had been with Mark for 6 years. He was a caring and supportive boyfriend and they had got an apartment together 2 years ago. The harsh tone of his comments had shocked her and she could not believe he could have referred to her in that crude way. She was his girlfriend not some cheap slut that he used for sex. She had gotten very angry with Mark and kicked him out of their room and he had been gone in the morning when she got up to go to the hospital where she worked in administration. Mark was an architect and had to be in the office early every morning. Linda had been glad that she missed him, she felt like she could barely look at him.
Linda pulled into the drive and was surprised to see Mark's car already there before her. She nervously fumbled with the key and walked in carrying the shopping.
"Hello honey," Mark called uncertainly from the kitchen.
"Don't you honey me, Mr," Linda replied acerbically.
"Honey sit down, we need to talk," Mark pleaded.
Linda rolled her eyes and sat down radiating hostility her eyes flashing and combative.
"I really think you are getting angry over nothing Linda," Mark began but Linda tried to interrupt.
"Please honey, let me speak and then I will listen to all you have to say. Now I know you think that slut is a derogatory term and it can be used that way, but only about women who sleep around with anyone. It was used to describe women who could not control their sexual urges to the extent that they became the local bikes. But in the context of a safe, healthy and respectful relationship being a slut means giving in to all your dirty and naughty impulses and desires and revelling in fulfilling the desires of your man. It means letting go of the pressues to be prim and proper and liberating yourself from your inhibitions. Unlocking your inner slut can be a passport to a very saucy part of your psyche. A slut loves sex, and when I say you are 'my slut' I am saying that I love having sex with you and I hope you love having sex with me. In the confines of a healthy relationship a slut is someone who gives, takes and wants to find pleasure in sex, someone who is greedy for sex, someone who likes to feel like and be treated like a sex object in the bedroom by the man they love and who loves and adores them just as I do you. All men love women who are sluts when it comes to sex, it means they are sexual creatures and honey you are a very sexy lady, I think you just have to release your inner slut and embrace sex and let loose. You might get past the censoring part of the mind, the super ego and release your id. If you take away the element of sleeping around what's not to like about being a slut, when it comes to sex all men are sluts and love their women that way too. It creates the freedom to enjoy no holds barred and mind blowing sex."
Linda was listening half in disbelief and half in shock, she had never heard Mark talk this way. He continued,
"I think we have got in a bit of a rut sex wise and I would like us to use our imaginations to enhance our sex life and add spice and excitement. Things like dirty talk, role-play, outfits and other things could add a bit of playful flavour to our love life. Dressing sexy for sexy time is a great gift for us men who love visual stimulation, it adds some flair and can have us melting you look so hot. I've been thinking about this for a long time, I think if you are open minded you will love it, and I would love it if you became my gorgeous sexy and slutty girlfriend. I will always love and respect you and treat you right, that will never change."
Linda stared into space her mind mulling over these words. If being a slut meant giving yourself over to giving and taking more pleasure in sex with a boyfriend that you love, well what would be wrong with that. The thought flashed across her mind but still left a bad mental aftertaste but she was trying to digest Mark's impassioned appeal as best she could.
"I don't know what to say Mark, I thought our love life was great." She answered haltingly a tear forming in the corner of her eye.
Mark's heart melted and he gave her a great big hug "I'm just saying you could be a bit more open to some more adventurous play in the bedroom honey, don't be so uptight and guilt ridden about exploring your sexuality with me. Anyway think about it. Let's have dinner and relax for the evening."
Linda was in a fog for the next few weeks, she was still trying to come to terms with what she had heard. She started to red articles on the net and began to get a handle on where Mark was coming from. She began to think about the male sexual psyche and what turned them on. She thought about how a woman who really embraced sex in a passionate encouraging way gave both herself and her man permission to find fulfilment without shame or apology. She began to think that it also allowed women to suspend the voice in their minds that made them ambivalent and hesitant about sex. Linda read widely and even began to watch some porn to gain an insight into different sexual dynamics. She saw couples really getting their freak on and losing control during some intense sex sessions. She started to feel the beginnings of an animal like arousal as she saw women getting and giving fulfilment by losing control to assertive and aggressive men. Slowly her natural aversion to the sexual openness implied by a term like "slut" began to melt as she thought more about it. She loved Mark and loved sex with Mark, so why would she be so opposed to being a slut for him. The more she could say the phrase in her head the more she became curious about what this new mentality could mean for them and their relationship. She started to learn some dirty talk phrases and ways to be a naughty girl in the bedroom so as to drive her man wild.
A week later in bed Linda cuddled up to Mark and whispered into his ear,
"I think I might like to be your slut, baby."
Mark's breathing stopped all of a sudden and he lay quite still. Then he turned towards her
"Ohhh my God Linda, those words are such a turn on." He grasped her hand and pulled it down to his crotch. She could feel his hard on straining against his boxer's.
"Look at the effect you have on me," Mark said "What does that make you baby?"
"I'm your naughty little slut," Linda said with a giggle and slid under the covers.