Lovers Once Again
After escaping a long, boring and sexless marriage, I met up with my friend Stacy who I dated many years ago but kept in touch with over the years. After being married so long, it felt a bit naughty to be meeting up with a woman other than my wife, but we just went to dinner and caught up on our lives.
Stacy has never been married and isn't currently dating anyone. She is an incredibly beautiful woman and I was dumbfounded as to why she's never found the right guy. At some point in our conversation, I realized that she's still single because she has a certain type of guy that she is attracted to and will not compromise. Whether it be their look, job or attitude, she is quick to toss them aside. I've told her many times that there is no perfect man out there and that she should focus on their good attributes and accept their less than perfect ones.
"Stacy. You're going to have to pick one or you'll be single your whole life."
She said, "A few times I've thought I found the right guy, but then find out they aren't into my lifestyle."
"What do you mean? They don't have the same interests as you?"
She said, "No, they want a monogamous relationship."
I paused for a brief moment of confusion.
"Wait. You don't want a monogamous relationship?"
She smiled and said, "I can't have just one dude for the rest of my life."
This definitely piqued my interest. She had never expressed this to me when we were dating, but maybe our relationship didn't get to the point that she felt comfortable revealing this to me.
"You never told me this when we were dating."
She giggled, "You and I never dated."
I sarcastically replied, "Oh, we didn't? I've been telling people that we dated, but apparently that never happened."
She smiled, "Dinner, drinks and dick is not dating."
We both laughed.
I asked, "You really don't want a husband and a big house on the corner with a white picket fence?"
"Oh, I do. I definitely do. But I want that husband to share me and allow me to share him as well."
Now I was really interested. One of the issues my ex-wife and I had in our marriage was sex. After our love life dwindled down, we read all the marital help articles and bought all the sex toys in an attempt to rekindle our intimacy. I even suggested we role play or go to a swinger's club and watch people fuck, but she turned it all down. Unfortunately, our intimacy eventually died completely and we divorced amicably. I'm only 51 years old and still in pretty good shape, so one of the main factors in divorcing my wife was that I became extremely concerned that sex for me would end so early in life.
"Hey!" Stacy's voice woke me out of deep thought.
"Oh sorry. I was just thinking about the times I talked to my ex-wife about having an open relationship."
Stacy said, "Most women don't want an open relationship. They don't have the stomach to see another woman touch their man."
"Yep. Exactly. That was her answer when I suggested swinging."
I was still intrigued by Stacy's requirements in a man and wanted to dive deeper into it.
"So, how did you first get interested in open relationships?"
She said, "I never said I'm interested in an open relationship. That is definitely not what I'm looking for."
"Oh, I thought a non-monogamous relationship is the same thing as an open relationship."
She sighed and rolled her eyes, "OK, I'll explain it to you. There are a few types of non-monogamous relationships. The main one's are open, polyamorous and then the swinger's lifestyle."
"OK, so you're not interested in an open relationship. This is interesting, so explain further."
She said, "Open means you can go on dates with anyone at any time, outside your marriage. Polyamorous means bringing a third person into the relationship both emotionally and physically."
I said, "So, basically that is a live-in threesome."
She giggled, "Yeah, basically but with emotions involved. That gets too complicated, so I am only interested in the swinger stuff. But if I found the right guy, I wouldn't rule out having a girlfriend as well."
I spent a few moments trying to process all of this. Watching Stacy with another girl? I could easily get on board with that!
Stacy spoke up, "You look confused."
"No, I'm not confused at all. You explained it well."
She said, "So, that's what I'm looking for and very few guys are willing to share me."
For some reason, I have always been fascinated with the swinger's lifestyle. I've read books and articles, read erotic stories, watched shows and even looked up swinger websites. Most of my curiosities revolved around watching how someone else makes my wife orgasm, whether it be a male or another female. I think I am more of a cuck and fucking the other man's wife is just the cherry on top.
I've always been extremely attracted to Stacy and this meet up was purely intended to catch up with an old friend, but these revelations really made her even more attractive in my eyes. Stacy is a couple years younger than me, but in much better shape than I am. Being single, she is really into fitness and looking after only herself, where I have been more focused on just trying to stay in shape rather than making it a priority in my married life. Her body is toned, her above average sized tits are nicely shaped and her little ass always looks perfect in whatever clothes she wears.
During dinner, I couldn't help but check her tits out as we sat across from each other. I have always thought that Stacy was the one woman in my past that I should have put more effort into, so the desire to date her has always been in my mind. But it had only been a month into my divorce and still had mixed feelings about asking Stacy on a date so quickly. However, her non-monogamous requirement is really what I want too and I at least wanted to let her know that I'm on board with this arrangement. So, with a little nervousness, I decided to plant the seed.
"I love your mindset."
She asked, "What mindset?"
"I'm not one for monogamy either."
Stacy's eyebrows lifted and she said, "Oh, really."
"I've always had the desire to share my wife or girlfriend, but always seemed to fall in love with a woman that has no interest in it."
Stacy simply said, "Interesting."
We continued with small talk after that, almost like she was trying to process my comments but didn't know how to ask more. We finished dinner, gave each other a deep hug and went our separate ways.
The next few weeks were pretty standard for me, but now with the addition of occasionally texting with Stacy. Our texting conversations were very surface level, but one day I received an interesting text message.
"Wanna go out Friday night?"
I looked at her text message for a couple minutes before responding, "Dinner again or is this a date?"