Every fall, my agency hosts a conference in the mountains of Colorado. Before the ski season begins, the rates are cheap and the views are gorgeous. The trees turn orange and red. The air is crisp with winter around the corner. Best of all, the hustle and crowds of summer and ski season are nonexistent.
Most attendees arrive at the hotel the evening before the conference convenes to get settled for into the rooms before the early opening keynote. For me, I was looking forward to a few days away from a stressful job, enjoying evening cocktails with friends and colleagues over the next few days, and forgetting about my divorce.
I arrived in the early afternoon and checked into my hotel. Over the next hour, text messages started to pop up on my phone with recommendations from friends with suggestions to meet for happy hour and dinner.
Once consensus was reached, about six of us gathered at the hotel restaurant to catch up in the ski resort where we were lodging. After dinner, we decided to move to the only bar that was open. Because it was "mud season" when there were few visitors. The bars watch for conventions or workshops and will open for a few nights to make some quick cash if there is something in town.
Our group wrapped and as we exited the restaurant, a similar sized party walked in. Approaching each other, I recognized them as colleagues from a prior job. After a few handshakes and hugs, introductions and greetings began.
While I was chatting with one of my old friends, someone interrupted me with, "I know you!" I turned to see a stunning woman grinning at me.
Always a clown, I responded with, "I don't think so, maybe you saw my picture in the post office on the most wanted board?"
"No," she said, as if it wasn't a joke. Repeatedly tapping my shoulder with her fist as if to jog her memory, it seemed to work. "I know. You were my boss. Ten years ago!"
I was clueless, but very intrigued. This extroverted stranger was drop-dead gorgeous. A Latina with long, flowing dark hair, a stunning fit hourglass figure under a snug shirt tight jeans, almost overshadowed by a genuinely bright and stunning smile.
Rather than continue our confusing banter, I said, "Why don't you just tell me your name?"
While giggling she said, "You might remember me as Sophie."
"Oh my god, Sophie. Yes! We did work together. How wonderful to see you!" I was the director of the agency where she was employed and we didn't interact much. But she was a popular and hard working teammate who was adored by her colleagues.
Sophie leaned forward and gave me a hug. Not only did she look beautiful but she smelled wonderful and squeezed me so hard I thought I might lose my breath. Her face pressed against my cheek. Sweet and soft. It was a delightful reunion.
Stepping back, she asked, "Are you here for the whole conference?"
I confirmed I was in for the entire week, running workshops, chairing meetings and socializing. Sophie raised her eyebrows, smiled, and recommended we find time for a drink to catch up. That seemed like a good excuse for another hug which I initiated this time and agreed with her suggestion.
Our groups separated and as I looked back, she did the same and waved.
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The local tavern was crowded and lively. I was able to snag a spot at the bar and ordered a beer. It was the perfect spot to socialize with dozens of friends and colleagues as they came up to order a beverage. Many laughs and hugs later, the crew we encountered from the restaurant wandered in. I was happy to see Sophie was among them. I kept sneaking glances past the people I was talking to in order to keep an eye on her. I did not want to head out before I had a chance to chat a little more.
I felt a bit like a minor celebrity as friends and colleagues came by to say hi. Sophie apparently was looking to do the same since she was hovering behind a couple lady friends with whom I was chatting. When they turned to head back to their table another friend approached.
"Excuse me," Sophie protested! "I am next."
I gave my other colleague a sheepish look and shrugged my shoulders. "Oops, I'll catch you in a minute." She just laughed and responded, "You better."
"Jeez," said Sophie. "I thought I might need to take a number. Do you have a harem or something?"
Rolling my eyes with feigned indignation, I explained that I just know a lot of people.
"Well, at least I made it to the front of the line. And now I see your beer is almost empty. Can I buy you a refill?"
"Only if I can return the favor."
"Deal," she grinned,
With both of our drinks refreshed, we began our catchup. I swiveled away from the bar on my stool to face her. Between the music and the crowd it was hard to hear over the din of everyone's conversations. Sophie squeezed in closer to talk directly in my ear. She bumped my leg with her hip so I twisted on the stool to give her some room. "That's ok," she said. "It's very crowded. Stay put." Hmmm, ok.
I was completely flummoxed. She was in her late 30s and I was easily 10 years her senior. She was gorgeous and could entice any man she wanted. What could she possibly see in me? But I was not going to jinx anything by talking her out of it.
As we continued our catchup, I learned she had divorced the husband I knew when we worked together meaning she was now single. She learned I was also moving out of a failed marriage after 20 years. I was a little embarrassed to admit that my separation was fresh and I was looking forward to the conference as a way to get away from the stress of the life-change and complications of work.