I got hit on by several of the husbands of the couples we were friends with. I knew their wives. Gene knew them and their wives. But that did not stop them from flirting with me and making sexual innuendoes during idle chat at parties and other places.
The first time it happened was at the house of a couple we knew.
It was a July 4th party. Their house had a pool in the backyard, and they were grilling hamburgers and hotdogs. They provided the food, and the invited couples were asked to bring their fav beverage. Gene and I brought our small ice chest with beer. I have always liked beer. Gene told me that was one of the things he liked about me when we first me - I loved drinking beer. LOL.
This couple also invited several other couples that we also knew or were familiar with.
This was in the late 1990s. I was 38 and you know from my older nude pics I had a nice body. I wore a one-piece bathing suit. I WAS NOT going to wear a bikini. That would have been a bit over the top. There was one wife there and I could not stand her. She was wearing a very, very revealing bikini. She was out of place, an I thought...you bitch. What the fuck is wrong with you.
Gene was talking with some of the other husbands, and I was standing by the pool watching our two kids playing. I had my fav beer in my hand. The husband (Bob) of the couple who hosted the party came up to me. We started chatting about the party, the weather, our neighborhood and so on. Just idle chat.
After a few minutes, he shifted the convo from idle chat to me and said, "Damn girl, you look awesome in that bathing suit." That threw me off balance just a bit. Then he looked down at my feet and commented on the pretty shade of red I had on my toes and laughingly said he has a foot fetish. I laughed and said you should not be looking down there. He laughed back. Both of those comments caught me off guard and I just said thank you for the kind words. He walked off and continued to mingle with the other party goers.
Fast forward to another pool party at their house at the end of the summer on Labor Day Weekend.
Same deal -- they provided the food, and we brought our fav beverage.
Again, it was a nice warm day, being in South Texas. Gene was chatting with his buddies, and I was sitting at one of the tables around the pool just watching things.
Bob came up to me again! He sat down in the other chair, and we chatted about the weather, our summer vacays and so on. I could see he was checking me out. He did not make any comments about my toes, boobs, or bathing suit but he was eyeballing those parts of my body.
He asked me "Didn't you work at the phone company? I replied that yes, I did and resigned about five years ago. He said, "One of my good friends (Russell) worked there for a while in the call center." I was shocked. He asked me if I knew Russell and I said yes. Russell was the guy I had the yearlong affair with!!! I almost lost my composure but did not say anything one way or the other.
The conversation continued and he mentioned there was a new coffee shop in town and asked if I would like to meet him, alone, for coffee. I was stunned.
I knew where he was going with the discussion. His friend (my former lover) probably had told him about my affair. Bob wanted some of my pussy, but I had no desire to start an affair with him.
I ended the conversation and said something about having to head back to the house. I stood up excused myself and walked over to Gene and said, "Let's go." Gene seemed surprised but he was ready to go.
A couple of weeks later, Bob called me during the day. I could tell he was at work and once again, he asked about meeting for coffee. I have no idea why I said what I said next, but I agreed. My plan was to go just this one time, have him get the coffee conversation out of his system and it would be the end of it.
The day came and I put on a nice sundress and sandals. He was already there when I arrived, and he stood up and hugged me. The coffee was great, and the conversation went very well. We talked about our kids; local politics and the hour went by quickly.