Let's face it, life gets in the way of a marriage. At one time most couples could not keep their hands off each other. Sex goes from every day to very rarely. Kids come along. Stresses from many fronts including work, and school activities for the kids. Most barely have enough time to sleep, much less keep up a healthy physical relationship with one's spouse.
Couples love each other, but some seek what's missing in their relationship. Fucking others will bring excitement back in one's life, however many feel guilty. Betraying one's spouse becomes an unfortunate result of straying. What can be done to rekindle the passion? It sounds easy enough, but most couples fail trying to fix the problems themselves. Hell, most cannot give an open line of communication to a person with whom they shared many years. Lack of communication weakens marriages before infidelity kills it.
What if there were people that could help? Not hookers or escorts, but real people that set up wonderful rendezvous to get couples back together.
The folks who listen to couples have one interest. Putting couples back together. Making time for each other. Sexy time together. These people listen and gather information.
The workers are trained in relationship psychology as well as sexual relationship issues. This has become a growing issue in society and many seek help but cannot afford the thousands of dollars to invest in professional help nor all the time for visits. Talking about the issues for weeks and weeks may never get to the real problem(s). One spouse or the other may not bring up the real problem(s). One or two visits with the mediator shows if mutual feelings to stay together as well as sex is still on the table. Getting the couple together quickly works better than talking for months. Without physical intimacy in the marriage, the couple are just roommates.
Let's start with a couple of high middle class individuals, with stressful jobs, and 3 children. Both in their late 30's, married for 17 years. George, a factory worker, has been doing the same job since high school. However, layoffs are always a possibility in factory-type jobs in manufacturing. The woman, Lisa is the breadwinner of the family. Lisa climbed the corporate ladder to become the manager of a major bank. She started as a teller before graduating high school. Household yearly income shows approximately $150k. George and Lisa live meager lives, with a nice home and American made vehicles. A good bit of money in the bank, including investments and 401(k). This allows them to vacation twice a year. Something is missing. No spark. No passion. Vacations key on fun for the children, not husband wife together time.
Lisa found an ad online about a company who finds answers for couples needing to rebuild their marriage. Lisa did not want to spend the rest of her life the way things are now. George probably felt the same. Very personal interviews talking to Jennifer, the professional, became the first step.
George and Lisa were asked questions like, "Do you see a future with each other?" "What do you both want out of life?" " Did either of you stray from the marriage" "Did you both enjoy sex with each other when you were younger?" "What happened?" "Is sex exciting or just something you perform". The couple responded yes to every important question. Neither of them strayed. "Kids happened" said the couple simultaneously to the question what happened? The couple currently carried a 19 month sexless streak.
Delving into previous sexual exploits were next. George loved Lisa in pantyhose or stockings while wearing silky, sexy undergarments. George remarked how Lisa gave him the best blow jobs, especially raking her manicured nails across his balls and ass. Lisa loved wearing pantyhose and stockings with sexy underwear. She loved George's 10 inch cock, and how it filled her. The head stretched her pussy wide before the shaft slid inside her. Both stated they missed the intimacy of giving one's self to the other. George pointed out they could go hours making love in their younger years.
Next questions were about things that may have changed in their sexual needs or kinks.
George shyly stated that after years of seeing Lisa in dresses and hose and high heels, he has developed a major foot fetish. He looks at internet foot fetish sites. Not bare feet. They must be stockinged feet or pantyhosed feet. George would love to rub Lisa's feet every night after work. He expressed the desire to put Lisa's feet in his mouth, kissing and sucking her toes. Also possibly getting a pantyhosed footjob from time to time. George also asked if Lisa could keep her toes pedicured with nail polish. He finds this sexy in hosiery. Lisa turned red with embarrassment. However, she expressed the desire to have George rub her feet after wearing high heels all day.
After years in the banking business and being the boss, Lisa, with great hesitation, expressed the need to be dominated. Basically Lisa will become a submissive for her man. George's mouth hung open in shock. A sly grin showed itself after the sideways glance Lisa gave him. After seeing the bulge in George's pants, the mediator felt this couple would soon be on their way to sexual bliss.