I had never heard of it. Neither had any of my girlfriends. My first exposure to "Steak and Blowjob Day" came in early March 2010. The day has changed my life.
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One of my girlfriends, Sharon, has tons of boyfriends and a really active sex life, but also likes to chat. She typically chats with guys that are pretty far away (we live on the west coast), and that are much older than she is. These chat-friends are usually short-lived, but there is one, Joe, that has gone on for a couple years. Joe is in his late forties, lives on the east coast, and seems to know his way around relationships. He has been a good sounding board for her boy issues, and he helps give a guy's perspective in a safe environment. Of course, they also do some dirty chat. She is really impressed with Joe's creativity, and has used his advice several times in pleasing her boyfriends.
It was probably around March 1, 2010 when Sharon called me, all excited. "I am texting with Joe, and he told my about 'Steak and BJ Day'. You won't believe this!!" She was almost breathless. "It's a payback day for Valentine's. If your guy gives up good for February 14, then on March 14 you buy him steak and suck him!! How great is that!?!?"
I have to admit it sounded pretty fun. And yes, my boyfriend gave me a really nice Valentine's day, but we broke up just last week. Kinda hard to do a BJ without an available penis!!
I am part of group of woman, all in mid to late twenties, that get together at least once a month to drink and mess around. Our March evening was on the 6th, the first Saturday in March, and we all gathered at our favorite bar for some pre-club drinks. Sarah was visibly excited while she waited for all 5 of the girls to arrive. She started out explaining to everyone the basics about Steak Day. And then got really intense.
"Let's all of us agree to give our guys a good steak and bj day," she started. "Joe had a fun idea. First, let's each put $20 into a pot. Then, at our April get together, the one with the best bj story gets the $100 pot!"
"But I don't have a boyfriend right now." I loudly lamented.
They just laughed at me. "Then you won't be getting the $100 prize!" is all they said.
Well, I like a challenge. And being dickless on March 6 is NOT going to stand in the way of my winning this little game. So over the next hour, while my 'friends' drank, I flirted my little heart out. Now, flirting is pretty easy for me. I don't want to get cocky, but I think I am pretty good looking. I am 5'4", 110 pounds, with shoulder length sandy blonde hair. I have a nice 34c set of boobs with some really responsive nipples. But my best feature is my butt. Nicely shaped and firm, and that night I had this cute little skirt clinging to my body. So, getting a guy's attention was not hard at all!!
In that short 60 minutes of flirting, I was able to get 4 phone numbers, and gave mine out another 5 times. I have never done anything like this before, but there is a $100 prize at stake!!
"So any of your targets boyfriend material?? Sarah asked.
"You'll just have to wait until our April meeting to find out," I said coyly.
We finished up our drinks and went out clubbing. Sadly, no more good targets at the club.
The next day I was a bit hung-over, but woke to the sound of my answering machine. "Hey there, this is Mike, I met you last night and thought you were great. I would really enjoy meeting up with you sometime. You can reach me.." And not more than 10 minutes later Steve called, leaving an almost identical message. Of the four numbers I got, Dan and Tom were really cute so I called them. They did not answer, so I left messages for them. I did call back Mike and Steve, and had a great call with both of them. However, Mike was traveling for the whole week, and Steve was already busy on March 14. But, there names definitely went into my "keeper" list!!
It wasn't until Monday lunchtime that I heard from Dan. It was a great call. Really sweet, interesting, smart, and respectful. His talking made me remember his really nice smile and nice shoulders. He was also available for a pre-date yet this week, and had no plans for the 14th. So, I had my first real candidate. That night, I heard from Tom. Tom was great, too, but he was just a little to pushy. Like he lacked self-confidence. He went on my "keeper" list, too, but my sights were on Dan at this point. I called Dan back, and we set a dinner date for Thursday evening at a little Greek place near my house.
All week long I had to endure the trash talking texts from my girlfriends. "Have fun on Steak and Jill-off Day"; "2011 will be your year"; "Here's a link on how to give a good bj, just in case you forget how to do it"; and "I could let you use a few inches of Jerry's penis, he has plenty extra." But these just heighted my resolve.
It seemed to take forever for Thursday to come, and for work to end. I went home and took a shower, and got ready for my early date with Dan. Picking my outfit was a real dilemma. Dan was going to be my only shot at Steak Day, so I wanted to really impress him, but I didn't want to come across too slutty. After trying on several things, I finally settled on a pair of slightly worn jeans. They had a nice casual look to them, and fit great across my butt. Paired with my platform pumps, they made my legs look long and shapely. I really like these jeans, as they laid tight against my flat stomach, and fit tightly on my upper legs, leaving a sexy little space between my legs when I stood.
I decided on a simple form-fitting white t-style shirt, and a crisp blue cotton short-sleeve shirt. I only buttoned the bottom couple of buttons, leaving the top fully open. The t-shirt stretched tightly over my boobs, letting the colorful design on my bra show through subtly. It let him see the nice shape of my breasts, without exposing any cleavage or too much skin. A set of gold necklaces, a wrist chain, some dangling earrings, and I was all set.
Dan was waiting for me at the restraint door. My heart skipped a beat as I saw him standing in the dimming light of the sunset. He was way better looking than even I remember. Probably just over 6 feet tall, athletic build, and a smile that warmed me all the way through. He was dressed just like I was: nice jeans and a cotton shirt. This looked like it was going to be a nice date.
The date went better than I ever could have expected. He was so sweet. And we had everything in common. He really was a guy that I would want to explore a long-term relationship with, and thought about maybe changing my plans to slow things down with him. But, the girls trash-talked me, and my only chance of winning was sitting at my table.