My sister is single...again and there isn't too much worse for her than to not have someone in her life. Thats not unusual but at times she is nothing but insufferable to everyone around her too.
We were originally going to the swap meet early along with brunch on a recent Saturday, then she didn't want to do that and wanted to go shopping later on then have dinner out. I asked her is she was sure this time and with a chuckle, she said sure.
So I got ready-I put on just a touch of makeup and played with my hair to get it the way I wanted, then some bangly jewelry.
I pulled my baby blue sheer underwire bra out of the drawer and hooked it on and then I found a freshly washed pair of tan nylons which I pulled onto each foot, calf, thigh and then my butt and tummy. I'll wear nylons or capri hose under leggings and yoga pants where the material is thinner or when they are a lighter shade like white, gray creme, that sort of thing.
Looking around in my walk in, I looked at all kinds of tops and finally settled on a bright red semi sheer casual blouse with a touch of orange in it and pulled it on, buttoning it up the back. Then I went to my drawers and found a cute pair of light tan leggings with some mesh cut outs up each leg, pulled them over my nylons and looked at myself in the full length mirror. I decided to let the blouse hang loose-it was one of those that was shorter in front and a bit longer in back-it hung about halfway down my butt. Not bad! Then I rustled around in my closet again and found some brown flats to wear out shopping.
Then I waited....and waited. Well after an hour, she called and now wanted to go out for dinner then drinks and dancing. Really? At first, I wasn't so sure as she just wanted me to help her find some guy and wasn't wanting to go out by herself. I thought about it some more as she was chattering about some semi underground club in Westwood that was full of fun high end people.
So the past few weeks, I kind of knew that my husband was dating someone. We have a great relationship and we enjoy swinging and the like and we've always had an arrangement where we can have a side dating thing from time to time, but we are pretty good about telling each other and being respectful to each other about it and not keep things from each other. As often as not these playmates have often ended up being swing partners or threesomes with us all playing together too.
I wasn't pissed or angry but was irritated at him nonethless and decided to myself "what the hell", he's fucking some cute young thing, I need to do something to let him know I'm sexy and desirable to sexy, hot and good looking people too, my sister and I haven't had a fun night out together much less meeting men in a long, long time so.....I stopped her short in her monologue and said yes of course we will.
I didn't want to go back and change into a dress or anything but I re did my makeup for dinner and a night out-specificly, I rubbed the faint eye shadow off and applied gold dust and slate eyeshadow, gave myself cats eyes, made my blush darker and then applied bright red lipstick. I added more jewelry, including my thin black steel necklace that was also a casual collar.
I belted my blouse with a gold toned belt and then decided to ditch my flats and I took a pair of over the knee brown boots out of the box and put them on. they are medium brown and have a high spiky heel. I tucked my leggings into the boots.I also threw on a black leather jacket. I looked like I was on the hunt for trouble.
Debbie was wearing a very sexy very sheer gray top and bright red bra and black jeans. She decided that she didn't like the boots she was wearing and I let her borrow my snakeskin pumps. Before leaving I changed my bag to something more evening like so I grabbed my gold clutch and almost as an afterthought, remembered to put in some breath mints, another edible, a spare pair of nylons and several condoms with my other stuff in the clutch in addition to my perfume and compact.
She finally came over and we shared an edible before heading out. As we drove from our home, she was talking about how she really needed this, how she really really appreciated me going with her and how she "really owed me one". Debbie also offered to give me money to cover an uber should she meet a nice guy. I declined and told her I'd be just fine if I needed to get myself home and told her I'd let her know somehow if I thought the guy was a creep or unsafe or something like that and we agreed on a safe word she'd use if we needed to get out of there fast.
During this, I played it cool. My sister knows that my husband and I have a healthy sex life-she's caught us making love more than once but she doesn't know too much about the kinkier aspects of our life. As far as I know, she's fairly vanilla and am not wanting her to know about any of that much less that I was entertaining the idea of a hook up. If she only knew half of what my husband and I have done!
We found a cute new Thai resturant on Ventura in Woodland Hills and had a blast matching wine with Thai food.
After that, we drove her car to the club. It was definitely underground as it was located in a strip center on the second floor that was empty except for this club, a dispensary and a 24 hour donut shop. Before we got out, we gobbled the other pot brownie as the first one was starting to wear off on us.
There was the customary line with a bouncer outside. He let us in after we'd waited about 5 minutes for him to notice us and wave us in--unattached women tend to get in right after celebrities in my experience. I knew we must have looked good to him as he "had" to pat us both down rather than just do a cursory check of our handbags.
The club was large and loud and very full, even for a Saturday night. There were multiple rooms that were separate from the main dance floor and bars-some were set up with other bands and others still were meant for conversation when you didn't want the music blasting.