My wife was a virgin when we got married. She had told me this before we got married. Neither one of us knew how much of a virgin. Her hymen bled after sex for the first 5 times we had sex.
After we got married, she confided to me that she had never touched a penis before, with any part of her body. No man had ever touched her pussy, not even through her clothes. One boyfriend had gone far enough to touch her breasts before, but never her naked breasts.
Needless to say, there was a lot of sexual exploration the first year of our marriage. We also watched a lot of porn together as an educational tool. I taught her how to give me a handjob, but she only did so if I promised not to cum outside her pussy. She loved watching women give blowjobs in porn, but she could not even make herself even lightly kiss my penis because she was disgusted by the thought of putting her mouth on a penis.
I eventually convinced her to let me watch her masturbate, but she did so only on the condition that I immediately fuck her pussy right after she orgasmed every time I watched her masturbate. Next, I wanted to be able to ask her to masturbate herself whenever I wanted (except, of course, during her period). She had two conditions: (1) I have to cum in her pussy right afterwards every time, and (2) I was not allowed to ever jerk off without her permission--even if she was having her period.
Eventually, I was able to convince her to let me rub her clit to orgasm, but this had conditions as well: no fingers in her pussy, and cum in her pussy immediately after her orgasm.
One day, as I was rubbing her clit, I made sure to go slow enough that she would be very close to orgasm for about 30 minutes straight. She had been holding my dick for the first 5 minutes of me torturing her on the edge, but she let go to help guide my hand to give her an orgasm. But I made sure to slow the pace enough to keep her on the edge. She got so frustrated that she got angry at me.
"What is wrong with you?" She yelled at me.
"What do you mean?" I responded, playing dumb.