THE BIRTHDAY PRESENT
Sex between my wife and I has always been good. From the day when I took her virginity until now, some thirty-five years later. It has been getting better and better. I have been the more experienced one of us and I have encouraged and guided her to experiment and try new things. She has always been willing but sometimes it took a great length of time to talk her into it.
The day that I took her virginity, she was eighteen years old, and I was twenty-three.
I lost my virginity with a girlfriend who loved sex. She lived with her aunt who was a nurse and worked nights. At first, we just felt each other up. This led to blow jobs and hand jobs and finally I told her that I had a condom and asked her if she wanted to have sex. She agreed. What I didn't know was that she had already been having sex.
Once we started, it became a regular thing and I slowly learned what women liked, how to prepare them for sex, and how to make them come. Our relationship lasted for a few years but as is the way of all things, we grew up and grew apart.
By the time that I met the lady who eventually became my wife, I was very experienced. I had bedded and been educated by older women, had read a lot about all kinds of sex and talked to loads of older and more astute men and women, to learn as much as I could.
When I started dating my wife, I was also involved with several other women. I told her this up front, because at that time, I had no intention of ever getting married. Somehow, she accepted that condition and was aware that I was dating other women.
She had decided that she loved me and was willing to wait until I had sown all my wild oats!
I assumed that she also was having sex too, which didn't bother me at all, but boy, was I wrong!
The first day that we made love, she was at home alone on summer break from attending business school. She too had been living with her aunt and two female cousins. They were at work.
I happened to be in her neighborhood and called her to ask if I would stop by and visit. She said that she appreciated the company. I arrived earlier than she expected.
She had just come out of the shower and answered the door, wearing a gold robe and slippers. Underneath, she wore her bra and panties.
She let me in, and we sat watching TV and talking. Eventually, we started necking. In short order, her robe was open, and I began playing with and sucking her breasts. She had the most beautiful pair of nipples that I have ever seen! They were sensitive too and by the time that I had shown them proper respect, her panties were soaked!
I made the assumption that she knew what she was doing, only to find out later that she was trustingly placing herself in my hands as her teacher and guide!
Horny as I always was, I took her to her bedroom, and she let me undress her. She slid under the sheet and somewhat self-consciously covered up herself. I undressed, joined her, and continued with foreplay.
She was so hot that she was soaking wet between her legs, and when I put my condom on and mounted her, my cockhead slid in easily.
Without much delay, I pressed all eight inches of my cock into her. I heard a gasp as I was about an inch and a half in, and she appeared to wince and grab my shoulder.
Later, I realized that was when I took her virginity, because after we both had come and I withdrew from her, I saw blood on the sheet beneath her.
On questioning her, she admitted that it was her first time having sex and that she had no idea what she was doing.
That was when I decided that I would marry her, because she had entrusted herself to me, expecting that I would take care of her, knowing that I could have done anything that I pleased to her, and she would have been defenseless!
I was quite upset with her for not telling me that she was a virgin, because, had I known, I would have taken more time and been gentler on entering her.
As it was, it worked out fine. She grew to love fucking and eventually I became monogamous as we fell in love. We were married three years later and to this day, thirty-five years later she has never denied me sex, no matter what was going on between us, and her pussy is still the best that I have ever had!
She depended on me to guide and teach her, and I did just that. I introduced her to deep throating and oral sex and man! can she suck dick now! I have taken her in every position known to humankind. Because my dick is big, she loves the doggy style as I get way up inside her and according to her, it makes her feel vulnerable, and at my mercy, a sensation that she loves.
I introduced her to spanking, and bondage, which she adores, to anal sex which we do as often as vaginal sex, and fantasies, in which we engage regularly.
Our sex life is vibrant and alive!
During this time, she has given me three daughters without missing a beat!
I love this woman!
As the years passed, the frequency of our sex didn't decrease much. We started out at about four to five times a week and now, thirty-five years later, its still at least three times a week, with one time reserved for anal sex, a favorite of ours.
In our fantasies, we have imagined MFM and FMF threesomes, foursomes, woman to woman scenarios and gangbangs. We no longer do any of them, but we enjoy fantasizing about them!
The reason why we have stopped, is because we were never able to find the appropriate partners. Finding a couple is very difficult as four people have to like each other in a foursome. Both husbands need to like each other, both wives have to like each other, and each husband has to like the other's wife, and the wives have to like the other husbands, all at the same time. That is a tall order, so we gave up on that.
The problem with the MFM is that many a male in our age range is not very virile and cannot maintain a firm enough erection for a long enough time, and she was often disappointed, so we gave up on that too, as she did not want a much younger man!
The threesome with another female calls for a lipstick lesbian who is assertive and takes charge. My wife enjoys reciprocating once the other female has initiated the action but will not initiate any overture. She does not care for butch females either and so that became too arduous a task!
I was determined to find a solution for these problems, since we still wanted to add another person to our lovemaking, so I decided that one way around them was to try an erotic massage!
A friend of mine recommended a very handsome Chinese guy, that he and his wife had used for years. He said that he was very professional, came with current health clearance, so condoms were not necessary, would come to one's home, if preferred and gave a great massage.
He was also very sociable, did only what was agreed upon, had a great physique and was also well hung and long lasting!
I gave Hung Lo a call and explained to him what the situation was. He agreed to come to our home, bring his massage table and oils and said that sex was not guaranteed as he would only go as far as the lady allowed.
Once the fee was agreed to, we set a date for the massage.
