Night Without Cailie
One big difference between swingers and "regular" people is that accomplished swingers don't usually confuse sex with love. Example: Phil and Cailie are a perfect match sexually, and though they are friends and care for each other, Phil loves Mary.
It took Mary longer to understand that. She had fun for many years, but never really completely lost herself playing with others, until recently. She always maintained a level of control. Recent events even concerned her a little after playing with TJ several times. She wanted to blame the aphrodisiac drugs and alcohol for why she got so into it with TJ. There were things she really didn't like about him, like the fact that he had a girlfriend that had no idea he was playing with them.
Cailie was out of town. Phil and Mary wanted to get together with TJ without the distraction of Cailie as she could be larger than life at times even during playtime. Mary was still having that battle in her head as to why TJ turned her into Jello and she lost control every time.
Mary and Phil had a deep discussion about it. Phil told her that his connection sexually with Cailie was just that, a sexual connection and it was a lot of fun. He asked Mary why it's so different with her and TJ. He told her that he has no doubts that she loves him and not TJ, so why is it so different to love playing with TJ since they both make each other physically feel tremendous. He told her to let loose and enjoy it as he does with Cailie and someday when it's all over, they will have great memories and great stories to tell.
Mary thought about it for several days leading up to their planned get together with TJ. Phil had a plan that hopefully would take some of the pressure off Mary and allow her to completely lose herself in the moment without distractions.
They got a room at a local lifestyle resort and met TJ in the bar for drinks. They always enjoyed a little boost from "Mollie" before playtime too to take the edge off. They never believed in a lot of socializing before playtime so they weren't in the bar for long before heading to the room. TJ was so into Mary that he always wanted to get to naked, fun part of the evening.
They had been talking to a single woman before leaving the bar that Phil commented on a few times that she met all his criteria. She was short, big fake boobs, nice ass, and seemed willing. When they excused themselves to head to the room, she seemed disappointed that she wasn't invited.
TJ kept eyeing Mary on the way to the room anticipating what was to come. We all knew seeing what had happened the two times prior they had hooked up. Mary tried to hide her excitement with moments of it spilling out and being obvious.
In the room TJ wanted to shower so Phil and Mary talked. He undressed her to help get her in the mood touching and playing a little along the way. Mary finally asked what Phil's plan was her mentioned days earlier. Phil had almost forgotten.
Phil said, "Instead of just accepting things and having fun, you've struggled with why you're different with TJ than anyone prior. I think it's the distraction of me and others in the room with you as we both are always aware of our spouses being there and that little bit of doubt that you may do or say something to offend the spouse. I think leaving you and TJ alone for a little will allow you to completely let loose and do whatever you feel."
