I have attended my gym on a regular basis for many years. Like a lot of people, I go to keep in shape not to consider the gym as a "meat" market. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy the view of some lovely ladies and what they wear, or don't wear to the gym. I do a nice variety of weights, cardio, and group classes. Over the years my schedule has been pretty consistent and I would see many people there at the same time. I would chat with some and even pick up a name or two and others were just an acknowledging wave or nod.
A couple of months ago I was doing my regular weight routine when I arrived at my next machine at the same time as another member. She was a regular I had seen many times. I waved her ahead of me and waited my turn. She did her first set and I remarked that she had excellent form.
"Thanks," she said, "I've seen you here often and your efforts are paying off."
"Thank you," I said with a smile, "that is very nice. I sometimes wonder why I do this but it is such a habit that I miss it when I don't work out."
"I know what you mean. I don't like the way I feel when I miss a few days. I've seen you doing some of the classes but I've never had the nerve to join. I think I would look like a klutz."
"I felt the same way so I stay in the back. It doesn't take long to get the hang of it. You should join us. I think you will enjoy it."
"My name is Jill, by the way and I'll think about it. What are you working on today?
"My name is Larry. I'm just doing free weights and a few machines like this pull down for my triceps. Without sounding too forward, do you want to work out together?"
"Thanks, yes I would enjoy it. "