Here kitty, kitty, kitty.
Megan responded to my Craigslist posting.
I had found some videos on the Web of couples involved in a tantric massage. One video especially captured my mind. It was of a couple who were obviously not "professional" performers. They were just two people who were very familiar and comfortable with one another in which he was now giving her a tantric massage. She was at ease with him. He knew what she wanted.
They began with her lying on her stomach on the bed, him sitting cross-legged beside her. Both were naked. He began to rub her back. His touch was heavier than a caress but lighter than what I associate with a massage. He rubbed her arms, shoulders, back, buttocks, thighs, legs and feet. She relaxed into his touch. He then proceeded to rub the inside of her calves and thighs.
After a while, when his hand reached her crotch, he took her legs and spread them apart. He then proceeded to fondle her pussy. He slowly wiggled his finger tips between her labia. He rubbed across her vulva with the flat of his fingers, slowly dragging them down and then dropping a finger between her labia. When she was sufficiently wet he began massaging her clit and clit nerve sheath with the tips of his fingers. He inserted a finger into her vagina. He continued this play until she moved and turned over onto her back.
He proceeded to rub her front including her breasts. He gave her breasts passing attention. His objective was to return to massaging and playing with her pussy, her "yoni". He massaged her yoni. He fondled it. He rubbed it. He toyed with her labia. He teased her clit. He made his "presence" known. She was verbalizing her feelings. She "spoke" with her body language.
He fingered her with one finger then with two. He didn't "attack" her pussy. He "played" it, listening to her, watching her expressions and body language.
She orgasmed but he didn't stop. He continued playing with her pussy. He just played differently for a while eventually returning to do what he apparently knew would bring her to another orgasm. He continued this for minutes. She orgasmed again and still he continued. It was obvious that she wanted him to continue.
For me it was awesome. He brought her to an orgasmic state and kept her there. She was in a state of orgasmic bliss. It was not about him. It was all about her.
I realized that I wanted do it.
I went onto the Web to see what I could find about tantric massage.
I watched videos. I read. After a while I came to the impression that a tantric massage was about releasing energy in the woman's body, bringing it down to the uterus where it was subsequently released over an extended period of time through multiple orgasms.
"Ya, I could do that," I thought.
From an earlier interest in Shiatsu massage I was aware of energy points in the body, energy centers, called "chakras", and pathways, called "meridians", along which energy flowed. There are charts that display the location and routing of the meridians. The charts can be downloaded from the Web. I did. Upon review I found interesting the concentration of meridians as they passed through the groin on both sides of the vulva.
Electrical energy flows within our bodies. It underlies our mental activates and nervous system. It is produced electrochemically from the foods that we consume. From my physic courses I remembered that all matter is made from energy, energy cannot be created nor destroyed and it can be transformed or transferred from one form to another. Our digestive system transforms what we eat into electrochemical matter which is carried throughout the body in the blood pumped by the heart and cleansed in our lungs.
There are seven energy centers. I refer to them in terms that are meaningful to me. From top to bottom: mental activity, senses, voice, heart, lungs, digestive system and reproductive system. While I may question many of the whatevers that some attribute to the centers when I think of what the centers do as I think of them, I can readily accept their existence.
As for the pathways of energy, I accept that they exist based upon empirical evidence. Their existence underlies the practices of acupuncture and Shiatsu. In time, another explanation based upon a scientific methodology might reveal otherwise. For the moment, they "work for me".
When I consider the wonders performed in a uterus I can readily accept its "awesomeness". I have no problem accepting it as a storehouse of energy. The idea of releasing energy in a woman's body through massage and gathering it and using the meridians to bring it to the uterus where it is subsequently released orgasmically over a period of time is intellectually acceptable to me.
I can readily accept the idea of a tantric massage which prepares the woman for a yoni massage.
From my prior experiences I knew that I could bring a woman to orgasm by manually stimulated her clit and her G-spot with vagina penetration. I've found that there was much more to learn. There is a big difference between sexually exciting a woman for a single orgasm and doing what is necessary to maintain her in an orgasmic state for an extended period of time.
I needed to find a woman with whom to develop my techniques and skills. I placed a posting on Craigslist:
