My wife Rita and I celebrate three birthdays a year, in March, June and September. Mine comes in March and hers in September. We call the June one 'ka-quarter'. Have I lost you? A thousand apologies, but let me explain about 'our' sister.
Becky led me to Rita. I had come to Nairobi on a UN Mission. In my leisure time I love to sing so as soon as I landed, I sought out the Nairobi Music Society, though it took a little time. We practiced at a preparatory school in the leafy suburb of Kileleshwa. Since the practices began at 7pm to allow for those people coming from their offices, I never really saw the beauty of the place until three weeks before the May Concert, which we called the Summer Concert, although here, close to the equator there are no clear-cut seasons such as we have back home in Britain. On this Saturday, three weeks before the concert, the conductor called an "all-day" rehearsal to allow the choir to go through all the music, and in the afternoon session to practice with the Nairobi Orchestra just as it would be at the concert itself.
That was when I was able to see the neat playing fields, flowerbeds and mature trees. I had heard of such schools at home whose premises were "country" like a Lords manor; it was a bit difficult to believe that such an environment was created for small children! That was also the day I noticed Becky for the first time. She was a light-skinned girl in the soprano section. At tea, as I returned the spoon I had used to stir sugar into my cup, our hands bumped into each other. I looked up to offer an apology, and was met with the most unusual eyes. They were a sort of liquid-brown, and set in a smooth face of amazing calmness.
"Sorry!" I smiled my apology.
A radiant smile of very white, even teeth answered me, "Its alright. I was a bit clumsy there."
I found it difficult to tear my eyes away from that loveliness. I held on for a second more than courtesy allowed. We each took two biscuits from the plate and I placed mine on the side of the saucer, ready to find a place to sit.
"I am Becky," came the surprising words. I had not thought that such a beautiful woman would give me the time of day, yet here I was being offered an opening gambit.
Delighted, I turned back to her. "I am pleased to meet you Becky. I am Brian Goodman."
"Have you just joined us?" she inclined her head. "I don't seem to remember seeing you at the December Concert."
I reflected that it had taken some time to find the Music Society. "Yes, I joined in March. I didn't think I would catch up with those of you who had started in January. That is why I did not want to miss this rehearsal." We sat companionably next to each other on the chairs set in the lawn beside the Music Gallery. "Incredible that such a building would be solely for teaching music to children."
"Wait until I show you the individual rooms where they learn different instruments."
"Are you telling me nothing else goes on in this whole building?" I lifted my eyes to scan the large edifice. I could not believe that all this was available in an African country for African children.
"Only the Hall in which we practice is not strictly for music. The rest of this whole thing is dedicated to the development of music."
After lunch, the orchestra joined us for the rest of the rehearsal. I found that I enjoyed the music more, probably because I felt I had someone to connect with in the whole ensemble. By the end, I was confident with all my music; even if the concert were the next day, I felt I was ready.
Almost naturally I found myself walking next to Becky towards the parking. "Going straight home, I imagine?" I hazarded a guess.
"Yes, but I am amenable to suggestion." Her brilliant smile was enough to dazzle me.
"Sawa!" I used my first Swahili word. "Follow me to Kasuku Centre. There is a pizzeria there called Pizza Corner."
"Follow you, or race you?" This time it was more of a mischievous grin.
Presently we arrived at the Centre. "You do not mind pepper, I hope?" She shook her head. I bought us a medium Chicken and Beef Pepperoni.
"You do not mind if I get us the drinks, I hope?" I laughed my consent.
She told me, almost as if I had asked her why she did not have a boyfriend despite being so gorgeous, "I have just finished the academic programme for my MBA. At the end of May I do my final exams, and I will be as free as a bird."
I updated her on my work for UNEP, whose headquarters were in Gigiri, on the outskirts of Nairobi.