However, this infinitely wise God gave man a physical feature, which is just the right size and shape to penetrate to the magic. He swells with anticipation merely from the taste, the feel, and the nearness of a woman. Although many men think they can get there with a finger or a tongue, they are not really very successful. Although it is great pleasure, and he can give her pleasure as he enjoys her, it is just not as satisfying. Making love to a woman is a gift from God. It's been said that dolphins make love for the pleasure of it, but we know of no other creature that enjoys the touch of the opposite sex as does a man. It is unimaginable ecstasy.
Now, men are simple creatures. They are also not very smart, sometimes. They get so excited when they reach the magic they forget what steps they took to get there and darn it, they have to start from the very beginning every time they seek a woman's magic. They just remember they are seeking a wetness they can only find in one place. He begins at her mouth and it is wonderful, but he knows it is even better somewhere else. He knows it is very warm, soft, and inviting. He will enjoy her breast, but continue to search, knowing the magic is deep inside her. If he is careful and treats her with patience and tenderness, she will pull him into her magic and he need do little more than slide along the path she prepares for him.
When a woman says she is ready, she will allow the man to show her were to find her magic. She will allow him to find pleasure in tasting the different places where you can find a glimpse of her magic and he will see that she enjoys his efforts. It is a promise, when she invites you into her magic, she will share her magic with him, perhaps for just a few moments, but it will encourage him to seek it again, soon, for he must have it. It is a need that burns inside him, heats his blood, flushes his skin, and sends tingles to the nerves in the farthest reaches of his body. He is addicted to the magic he tastes in her kiss and a man will want much more from her. When she learns how much she enjoys his efforts, she will encourage him to greater efforts.
So, turn her over and kiss her gently. Do not be concerned that in your bungling way you forget what you seek, and settle for another source of the magic, for you dare not, until you know how much she enjoys your search for her magic. You want to make love to her until you are so deep inside her magic that you no longer think of taking your next breath and are brave enough to explore the magic you taste in every one of her kisses. Everything a man and a woman do for each other, to give pleasure, is beautiful. Does she feel your hardness upon her hip? Does she know how your kiss encourages her to open herself to you? Does she feel her blood pounding? Does she tremble inside, with a feeling of fullness, swelling, and wetness? Put your arms around her and hold on. Kiss her. Don't think about it. Don't plan how you will do it. Just kiss her and enjoy her. Enjoy the magic of your kiss. Taste her. Explore what happens to yourself when you touch her. Find the secret places that excite her. Be adventurous. Take some risk. Think about the magic inside her waiting for you to explore. And when you find the magic, and show it to her, she will share it with you, openly, fully, and in more abundance than you can imagine. Because, you see, she enjoys her magic, too.