The woman I would later marry, Aleja, was essentially a virgin when I met her. She was gunshy about dating.
Literally.
As in, gang-raped at gunpoint when she was young.
Years of therapy later, she reluctantly agreed to go on OKCupid and try dating for the first time.
I was on OKCupid because I was painfully alone after from moving to Austin with a Vietnamese woman unnervingly deep in the hot/crazy matrix's 'danger zone'. Hot loud sex. Tried to get me arrested -- as foreplay? Vengence? Dumped her.
First date with Aleja, we talked at Starbucks for an hour. Short sexy thicc figure, darkish brown skin, beautiful dark eyes and black wavy hair. My physical opposite - I'm tall, slim, green eyes, blondish-brown hair.
The second date, we went wine tasting. She belatedly mentioned at the first winery that she didn't drink alcohol. Fourteen hours of nonstop talking later, we reluctantly parted with a passionate kiss. Her first such kiss.
Third date, she invited me to cook dinner at her house, with her nutjob Corgi, Buddy, noisily chaperoning The Intruder O' Badness. I went straight from work, rocking a charcoal grey suit, unaware that business wear was her aphrodisiac.
After eating Asian-Italian fusion pasta, we sat on a ridiculously expensive couch, French kissing.
Soon, I was seducing her - laying on top of her, coaxing her legs apart, unbuttoning her shirt, unhooking her bra, kissing her big breasts and her dark brown nipples. Not my first rodeo, seduction-wise, but with a connection and passion conspicuously lacking with women I'd dated before.
"Want to go to my bedroom?"
Ohmyfuckinggodyes!
I nibbled her erect nipple, feigning ambivalence. "Are you... ready?"
Apprehensive but turned on - a demure "Yes".
In the bedroom, I flung a wretched excess of pillowage onto the obligatory bedroom chairs, while Aleja lit vanilla scented candles. Setting off barkage from that damned cockblocking Corgi.
We slowly undressed -- black lacy panties and bra for her, naked for me. I picked her up, and, laughing, tossed her onto the bed on her back.
Surprised, but turned on by my strength and roughness, and undeterred by Buddy going ballistic at this perceived assault, she let me kiss and lick down her sexy curves. Until I attempted to lick her sexy musky-smelling dark labia.
She pressed her thighs tightly together. "I -- I can't..."
