My story may not be as unusual as I always had thought. I grew up in a small town in the Midwest and one summer I had an experience with another boy. I guess you could call it normal exploration and experimenting. But, after that summer I got interested in girls and nothing more happened. At least not until many years later.
I dated a few girls, found the girl I loved, we dated for over 5 years, got married, had two kids and lived what could be described as a normal life. We moved around with my different jobs and we did okay financially.
Our kids grew up, left home, got married, and now have kids of their own. Of course that left my wife and I as empty nesters. My hope was that with the kids now out of the house, maybe we could improve our sex life.
Early in our marriage, before kids, we both enjoyed our lovemaking. It was not terribly adventurous or exciting, but very enjoyable. She was the prettiest girl in school when I started dating her and as she matured she became even more sexy!
She did not have much in the way of sexually experience before we started dating, in fact none, and so as we dated and got more serious she was always a bit hesitant to do much. Each step in the process took some time.
Once she started experiencing different things, she started enjoying it. You could say that things were pretty vanilla, but we liked it. She was a cheerleader in high school, so in addition to being pretty she had a great well-toned body and she was also a member of the National Honor Society, so very smart too. In other words, she was the whole package.
I was an athlete, but not a star by any means, except maybe in baseball where I batted.500 for my junior and senior years in high school. I was okay looking, but at only 5'8" and 135 pounds as a senior, I was no physical specimen.
Once we were married, out sex life was very good. We even started talking about having a threesomes. We talked many times about it and those talks resulted in some steamy sex!
We even went so far as naming the other people we would consider having a threesome with. She selected a boy from her grade in high school and I picked a college classmate. She was actually my second choice, but my wife nixed my first choice, her next younger sister. She said it would be too weird to have her sister in bed with us!
One night we even tried to ask her friend if he would join us in bed. I kind of stuttered through trying to ask him and I was doing a very poor job of it, then in the middle of my asking him, my wife got cold feet and said never mind and we left. We did go home and talk about what may have happened and we fucked, we did not make love, we fucked, and it was great!
Well, then kids came along and sex started happening less and less. As the aged and she was more focused on her motherly duties, her wifely duties slid down the list of priorities even further.
So, you can see how I was anxious for the time when the kids would be gone and we could rev things up in the bedroom. Well, the plans did not work out quite like that. She now had her job and was paying more attention to that instead of our bedroom activities, or the lack thereof.
Next came menopause and her desire for sex dwindles even more. She then had a medical condition that made it painful for penetration and as you can imagine, that did nothing for our sex life except make it almost non-existent.
Instead of things improving after becoming empty-nesters, things only got worse. We seemed to be drifting father and father apart. I still oved her very much and wanted to have more sex with her, but that just was not happening.
I had always like masturbating, I guess I found it great fun when I was a teenager and still liked doing it. Only now, that was my main sexual outlet. I was jacking off at 60 as much as I did as a teenager.
I started turning to the internet and porn to jackoff. I liked all kinds of different stories and videos and looking and sexy pictures. I also started to chat with others on various sites, both men and women. Of course, the majority of the women I chatted with on those sites were not like my wife, they wanted sex and loved sex and for many of them they were not getting anything from their husbands.
It seemed that the story from many of the guys I chatted with were very similar to mine. As they got older their wives wanted sex less and less. Some of them were telling me at had been years since they had fucked their wives. I was thankful that my wife would at least have sex every three or four weeks!
Some of these guys talked about the women that they were connecting with for some NSA sex. I had decided that was not for me, too much risk of an emotional attachment. I was married and wanted to stay that way. My wife was the only woman for me!
The some of the women I chatted with and a few of the guys started telling me about how some men in our situation would find other guys to play with. Some only wanted to have a Jackoff Buddy, while others went for full-on homosexual activity.
