A few years ago I had the day off and was browsing online and checking my online accounts seeing if there was anyone new local to the area. I was looking to find someone to be friends with or chat online so I was not looking for a hookup. Not much was going on because the wife just left around 7:30 am until I received a message from someone about 10 miles from me. The guy was about 55 years old and I was 29 at the time. Before I was not even considering anyone that much older than me but he seemed to be in good shape by his profile. I responded to his message soon after looking at his profile. We chatted for a bit and guessed right away when I had bi on my profile that I was married. After a few more forward and back he knew I was inexperienced and told him I was looking for a first-time experience. Initially, I told him I was looking for someone to be friends with but he said this would be a no-strings-attached meetup and more if it works out.
At that time we introduced ourselves and his name was John. John assured me he would take it slow and would show me the ropes and go at my pace. John was married to another guy at the time and he also had the day off and was checking messages. He asked if I was interested in an older guy and I told him it depends on the connection. Chatting online for a few minutes felt like we had a good connection. I was not considering older men until I saw how in shape he was and based on the chats I said I was interested in him.
At this time I was already turned on and he asked to see more pictures of me. We unlocked our private photos to see more and we were both commenting on each other's bodies. At this point, we had chatted for almost an hour and it was about 8:30 in the morning. John said it was early in the day and we were so close to each other that we should just meet. At this point, I got butterflies in my stomach. After all, I didn't think I would be meeting someone like this because I was married and I was looking just for a chat buddy. At this point in the marriage, we had been married for 6 years and the sex only occurred every few months and I have been wanting to try something new.
After a minute or so I said yes and decided to try a new experience. Around 1 pm I was meeting my wife for lunch and did not have much time to decide. John replied immediately with a big "YESSSS." A few seconds later he sent his home address and phone number. I said I would get ready, shower, and be there in an hour and sent him my phone number. John said I could shower there and just come over right away. I was worried about giving my phone number but I replied with it anyway to prevent me from backing out because of me wanting to try something new. Told him I was logging off and would be there as soon as I got dressed.