[MFM] Convinced my wife on a first time visit to a Swinger's Club in a new city.
This was a long time in the making for my wife and I to share this experience. She was reluctant for years to let anyone enter our marriage in a sexual way. She was loyal and always came back to our vows and she told me idea scared her because she was worried it would open a desire or kink inside her. I was always of the opinion just embrace it!
There was a venue in the city we visited that hosted swinger's parties and had a clean and fun reputation as a adult club. We did some research together online and read reviews of other couples that were doing this type of thing for the first time. My wife read a review of a couple, similar age and almost identical circumstances to ours. High school sweethearts and looking to spice things up in the bedroom. The woman's side of the review was that there was no pressure and most of the real kinky stuff went on behind curtains in private spaces. The review went on to say it was like a night club with a bit more class, better music and a really friendly crowd. My wife was convinced that she could go ahead with this type of new experience after reading and listening to others first experiences.
It was the weekend away from our city we had planned for a while. The kids looked after and we were set to try this new experience and see what may happen. We had great conversations about our boundaries and very clear on expectations and limits. This triggered conversation about what opportunities may present and how we would both act. My wife did want to say it but her cheeks were blushed and she was excited by the possibilities.
I had wanted to go for a good couple of years to an establishment like this and couldn't believe it was happening! If I wasn't so turned on that my wife committed I might have been nervous!
In our research we looked at what to wear, bring and if there was anything we needed to prepare, and was told to wear as little clothing as possible and expect the unexpected, so Em went simply wearing my favourite little black dress of hers, high heals, leggings and nothing else but her clutch handbag. This took some time to get her to agree but far out she looked smoking hot. Such a short dress with no panties!
We arrived at the club around a 1/2 hour before it opened for our arranged tour and introduction by the host. They did an excellent job running us through the club and expectations, behaviours and different spaces for particular types of play. We were surprised by the variety of rooms and activities there. We were excited but so nervous and I was taken how absolutely fascinated at how taken Em was by some of the rooms, she had that blush in her face again and I knew she was getting excited. There really was a room or area for everyone and kink! Overall, both of us were extremely turned on by the whole set-up. After the full tour we were invited to make our way to one of the many bar areas to grab a first free drink. By this point there was a number of couples and everyone was chatting, relaxed and having fun. This helped calm our nerves and we instantly started chatting with multiple people.
A number of people really took to us and everyone was good looking and appeared friendly. The energy in the rooms was building and so electric. We watched a number of people move to other rooms and couples and groups were starting to build in confidence and publicly play. Em was starting to comment on a few guys and cocks she was seeing. Em looked so gorgeous and I could see her squeeze her legs and squirm in her tight short dress! I was permanently hard and needing to go to the toilet and kissed Em and ran my hand up her short skirt towards her pussy as I left. Just this act alone in public was so exciting. Em flinched as my fingers lifted her skirt to show the room her pussy and ran up her already wet slit. I knew I would be gone for a bit to get my cock soft in order to pee.
While I was gone she watched someone get flogged and fingered at a table and found herself getting wetter and more ready to play. Em was quite popular while I was gone and had received two proposals across the short time and she really fancied a dark early 30's male who was topples and ripped with smooth black skin, beautiful abs and eyes that could melt any woman. He was a gentleman, confident and smelled like cinnamon and pine needles. He asked Em if she wanted to play. Em responded with a nervous start but was drawn in by his looks, smell and personality. They exchanged names and continued to chat while I was gone. Jason pointed out his wife to Em, who was seated in-between two guys with their cocks out while she controlled and alternately sucked each of them. She was also darker skinned and stunning.
Em asked Jason about is first time in a club like this and how long he has been coming. He was very happy to share. Jason told of his desires to have another guy rub up his wife's pussy and breasts while he watched and that he lead his wife to the grop room the first time they came. The grope room is where you are, if comfortable, to be groped or touched by others. There is a rule of "confirm consent" where you are required to get a nod or a verbal yes before engaging. Jason spoke of how hot it was kissing her while she was rubbed and fingered at their first visit. All of the sudden Em's next move when I arrived back was clear. She knew it was the grop room for her next stop after hearing Jason's story. Jason saw That Em was turned on by the story and asked if they could meet when I was out. Em replied I think we would both like that. They cheers'ed drinks and agreed to meet there soon.
When I got back Em was alone and had a new sparkle in her eyes. Her cheeks where blushed and all I wanted was to touch her smooth wet pussy! Because I knew it was dripping just by looking at her. Em stood up and adjusted her LBD and reached out her hand and said "I know what room I want to visit now" she leant in, gave me a kiss and held her hand out for me to follow. This act alone was the highlight of my evening so far. I just loved her knowing and just going for it. I said "lead the way my minx"