Culture. It's a part of our lives from the time we were born. It influences the things we do, say, what we eat, and many other things. Unfortunately, it also influences our sex lives.
Being of Indian descent, sex before marriage is forbidden. If the man believes that his woman is not a virgin, life can become very difficult for her.
My dilemma became very apparent went I took a job in a food factory. I had just finished my first degree and was working the Quality Assurance department when things changed for me.
James was the production supervisor on my shift, and a real hit with the ladies. A well muscled black man, he had the ladies in a frenzy. Every day in the ladies changing room, his name would be the subject of conversation. Some of these conversations were in great detail. I soaked up every bit of information I heard about him.
He was well over six feet tall, with big, broad shoulders. It wasn't hard to understand why the women loved him. I remember going to see the human resource manager and as I approached her door, James came out of her office. When I looked at her, her nipples were showing, her eyes were red and she was glowing. As is customary, James gave me a hug when he saw me outside. Shortly afterwards, the HR Manager postponed our meeting, citing a meeting with the General Manager. I am not sure what James did to her but she looked very tired.
With each passing day, I heard something sexual about James, all of which, made me feel warm and fuzzy. One of the ladies described how she felt when James held her hand. It was the same feeling I got. In essence, the changing room chat was turning me on.
The following week, the Xmas party was announced and there was a buzz about the factory. The company had a good year and decided to treat the staff. The venue was at a rugby club near by, however, it was not easy to get to. While the staff were busy organising a ride for themselves, I asked James if he would take me and he said yes.
For the week running up to the party, the ladies were outlining what they were going to wear and where they were going to get their hair and nails done. However, when one of the ladies wondered what James was going to wear, the conversation took a totally different direction.
"If he is so sexy in street clothes, can you imagine what he's going to look like dressed up?" one of the ladies asked. After that, the conversation turned sexual, with James as the main attraction. A couple of the ladies said that they hope they could sneak away during the party and fuck him. This was greeted with lots of laughter.
On the night of the party, James sent me a text, letting me know he was outside. When I saw him standing by his car, I was shocked. James was wearing a long, black coat, which I found out later it was made of Cashmere.
"You look like Morpheus," I said.