When I was in my early 20's, I was very curious about exploring with a guy. I wanted to know how it felt to hold his cock, how it felt stroking him, especially how it felt when he cums, and trying sucking. I looked online and found a couple of cruising spots, one about 20 min away. A couple of times I parked in the area of one of the sites and watched the guys coming and going, casually walking into the woods and then going back to their car. One day, a guy who had been walking around caught my eye and came over to chat. We just had some small talk, then he crossed to the path across the street and nodded for me to follow. My stomach was in knots with anticipation and nerves, but AIDS had just come on the scene and I didn't want to risk catching it. I started my car and left the area. Over the years I would let my curiosity get the best of me and I would cruise certain areas, but I never got the nerve up to walk into the woods.
Fast forward to my early 40's and my curiosity was still going strong. I started to find chat rooms where guys shared their stories/fantasies about being with another guy. These chats always got me hard. I was a bit nieve and didnt really know about video booths. One guy suggested I try going to one and if another guy was interested, he'd come into the room. He said that it was pretty safe and totally anonymous.