The first time I had sex was with my friend's wife...
These are true stories of my first time and a few thereafter until I had joined the Marine Corps and left. I still managed to come back a couple of times to have fun with her.
Alan and I have been friends since middle school, basically from when his mom and dad bought the house between my family's house and the road. He stood out for where we grew up in the Bible belt, he was tall and skinny and had straight black hair down to his eyes. Our mutual love of heavy metal and hair metal at the time was probably what brought us together as friends.
His family moved about 15 miles away when we were still in high school and in our junior year. One day at school Alan ran up to me excitedly and said "hey Jay I have a girlfriend!" To say that I was surprised was a bit of an understatement. Neither of us were great with the girls, but I thought I was clearly still the better looking at the two of us.
At 19, Alan was a year older than myself. He said Kim was originally from our home town and was the same age as him or maybe 20. I immediately started the questioning; where'd you meet her, where's she from, how'd she get here? All the normal questions you would ask someone whose story you clearly didn't believe. He began to tell me that his dad had met her in Wisconsin and she had needed a ride back down south. He told me that they had sex within two days of meeting... and I was pissed, I thought I would be the first to get laid!
Several weeks later Alan comes up to me and says hey I have to tell you something, I said okay what you got? He said Kim's pregnant and I'm going to marry her? I said what the hell? You guys just met how can she be pregnant already? Alan, ever the gentleman, explained that they hadn't used protection and then he smiled and said it only takes once if you do it right. I laughed and said okay, but how you plan on taking care of your little one. He said that's what he had come to talk to me about. He said that he was going to drop out of school so that he can take care of Kim and the. I told him you will have a hard time getting a decent job when you haven't even finished high school. He said he knew that and that he had an uncle in Florida that was more than willing to help him out and give him a decent job but that he needed my help. I said I don't know what help you're looking at from me! He said his mom didn't like Kim and that he just wanted me to bring her over to my house and let her hang out with my mom and dad who always had treated them both like family.
He stayed around until his son Michael was born and within a week he was headed to Florida to work for his uncle. As he was leaving, he reminded me of our deal to get Kim and bring over to my house for a while, to which I agreed.
It was probably a month later when I got a phone from Kim asking to come over and visit. I said that I'd be more than happy to pick her up after work. I had to call her from work because there had been an accident at work and we were having to clean up a bunch of broken glass and that I would be late. She said no problem, mom and dad are going to watch Michael. I just want to get out of the house.
Thinking back, I don't know if it was the stress of having to deal with all that broken glass or just being young and naive but I didn't really understand what she had said. I finally got over to her mother and father-in-law's house and I came in and said hi to everyone and explained why I'm late and apologized for being dirty.
Kim said goodbye to everyone and gave Michael a kiss as we left, I reminded them what our number was in case they needed to. On the way back to my house I began to explain why I was covered in broken glass and why I was late. I also said that I was going to take a shower as soon as I got home to get the broken glass off me and that she could hang out with Mom and Dad. She said okay.