It has now been almost a week since the events took place.
Tom is a guy I met in London a few months back, through my ex. White, height below average, thin but with a slight beer belly. He never tried anything with me, besides daily conversations. He's always been polite and respectful. I heard good things about him, and he seemed like a nice guy, but I never got too close because I was worried things might be awkward since he's my ex's friend.
Last Thursday, Tom and I (Chinese, 25F, tall, thin) met at a party that my girlfriend organised. I was surprised as I didn't know he and my bestie knew each-other.
Tom and I hardly spoke throughout the party, at least the first hour or so, as we never really spent any time together. I could tell he wanted to get closer to me, as he has always been sharing moments of his life with me via text, I was always reading his text, but never replied. Anyways, after two hours, we ended up close together listening to some music, as one of the guys that was hosting the party had a guitar hero set and started playing it in front of everyone. I don't remember a party more crowded than this one, almost 50 people squeezed into a relatively small flat in East London.
I was slightly tipsy, and at one point I realised that Tom was behind me, we were both standing, listening to the very loud music, and jokingly he put his hands on my shoulders, i felt shivers running down my spine for some reason, i think he realised, but i didn't reject him, I simply turned my head back towards the TV, he put his other hand on my other shoulder, then he slowly moved his hands down to hold my tiny waist. After a minute or so, I took his hands off my waist. He and I were still very close.
The crowd squeezing in, meant his hands were now touching my ass, and i turned around and we looked at each-other, he didn't break eye-contact, and I suddenly felt a strange heat wave in my body and in between my legs. His hand were now comfortably touching my ass and i don't know why, but i didn't say anything, i wasn't scared, maybe i was just enjoying the attention, and his touch.