A recent event reminded me of this story from a few years ago. Thought I'd share.
During my early years, I did the usual playing and experimenting. When I was in my early 20's I was in love with pussy, but found myself thinking about men from time to time. My thoughts were not "romantic" but purely sexual and physical. Eventually I found myself looking at the men's cock as much as the women when I was looking at porn.
I think the real turning point came one morning when I got a "booty call" from one of my friends with benefits. She was in her mid 40's and married. Her husband traveled a lot for work, sometimes gone for over a week at a time. She met me at the door wearing only a see through nightgown and we went straight to the bedroom. She was in quite a state and I asked her why she was so worked up? She was from the Deep South with a buttery sounding southern accent. She proceeded to tell me that her husband had left on a trip right before she called me. But before leaving, he had fucked her. She always found his penis too small and he came too quickly. This time was no exception. He bent her over the edge of the bed, pulled out his dick went at her. After he came, he put his dick back in his pants, grabbed is jacket and suitcase, gave her a peck on the cheek and was out the door. Now I understood.
I moved between her legs and started to slide in. She moaned and raised her hips towards me. I was suddenly deep in her and I could feel s pool of his cum inside her. She must have noticed the look on my face because she said, "I'm sorry suhga. Should I have cleaned up first"? "You got here so quickly and all..." "I know it's got to be a mess in there. The man really does cum a pint." I was so excited, I started shooting and adding my cum to the supply her husband had left behind. I remained hard and we spent the next four hours in bed.
I never lost my love for pussy, but after that morning, I knew what I wanted to try next.
At about that time, America Online was the new internet service (this was before a lot of people even knew what internet was.) AOL had tons of chatrooms on just about every topic you could imagine (and a few you probably wouldn't want to). After a few visits online, I started chatting with a guy in one of the local M2M rooms. He seemed pretty normal and sane. He was 48, married, retired from the Navy and had his own business doing small electrical engine repairs. I agreed to meet him at his shop the next day at 4:30.