The first time she said it, I thought it was just a drunk joke. But, the idea of going down on another guy while she watched grew more and more interesting and finally I told her I'd go along with it. But, she would owe me, I told her. This was about 7 months into our dating, not exactly exclusive, but we stuck together for the most part. So, I figured if I gave into her fantasy, she'd return the favor.
The problem in a small town like this one is finding someone who's bi and open with it. The Bible Belt's not exactly an easy place to find "men" who will admit they'd like to try another guy. Turns out, I was being set up. There was no real search another of her "friends" had talked her into it, and I was the mark.
So we agree to a small dinner at his apartment. Ultra modern must have made a lot of money before the dotcom bust. The table was set and over dinner we discussed politics, then movies, before settling on the same thing we were all thinking. Kind of a truth or dare game, where truths are the only option. The wine was starting to let my head spin lightly, and I admitted to going down on my best friend in high school. Kate, the girl, she's one who'd seen it all and wrote the book on how to do it. Alex, her cohort enjoyed men and women equally. "Eat drink and be merry, for tomorrow we may die," but his ran closer to fuck and drink, he couldn't have weighed more than 160 at almost 6 feet. Turns out he ran several clubs in town, so had hook ups for all kinds of chemicals and fun.
I was the oddball of the group. Too much weight, not enough money, and couldn't tell the difference between chardonnay and zinfandel if you paid me. But as Kate said, any man who can wrap his tongue around her clit and make it vibrate for 30 minutes was good enough for her.