I have been a masseur for four years, providing relaxing and invigorating massages to women of all shapes and sizes. I feel that my clients generally get the treatment they are looking for, whether it is a by-the-book massage or something more intimate. My client base is not large; I never intended it to be a full time job. I have regulars that make appointments on a weekly or monthly basis and others that just come in when they have issues or perhaps just need to feel special.
I pride myself on understanding the needs of my clients, so I generally know what they are looking for in a massage. For those that want something extra, well, I provide happy endings. I have to feel I can trust them, so it's usually not on the first visit. It's seldom nothing more than a manual release, but some like to hold onto me as I'm working it up. OK, some times more than holding. One regular client is always determined to make me cum, like it's some sort of contest. Another longtime client frequently wants and usually receives an oral release. With her I have to remember do go sparingly on the oil. Even though I use a natural extract oil, it doesn't taste that good. So usually just manual release, but whatever else happens, I've never dipped my stick. Hey, I have ethics, of a sort.
Did you notice that I use the term 'release' a lot? It makes my job seem much more legit than it is. It's better than saying "Let's sooth the tension in your shoulders, and then I'll finger your pussy until you cum while you pump on my cock." So 'release' it is, even though we all know what I'm talking about.
And did you notice that I said I massage women?
For my entire career, as short as it has been, I've never offered to massage a guy. I've had plenty of offers but I've always stuck with women. I just didn't have any desire to work on men.
But, with times being as they are, along with the loss of a couple of my steadier clients, I recently decided to start giving massages to men. I was really hesitant but I had to increase my client base. I decided to advertise on Craigs List, under the 'services' category, not the personal ads. Even so, most of the inquiries from men ask for a picture or tell me that they are DDF (drug and disease free), either of which lets me know that they are looking for more than I am willing to offer. I always reply back to let them know that it is not a sexual massage, just in case that's what they are expecting. Even though they know it's not going to happen, I think most of the men I've worked on would have been fine with me giving them happy endings. So the answer to the question "do you supply a happy ending?" was always no. But I started thinking that if the vibes were right and there was a connection - including trust and understanding - I might provide the extra release. I don't like the idea of accepting money for it, so I wouldn't put a price on it (like a menu). Hey, I have ethics, of a sort. But tips are always accepted...
And so I started to get quite a few new male clients, although most only had one massage before they moved on. Apparently I wasn't meeting their needs.
When I get a new female client there is a move that I use when I'm unsure if she wants more than the standard massage. While she is lying face down, I move the draping up and over so that it only covers the butt crack and one leg; the other leg is totally exposed all the way up to her lower back. So far nothing untold, as part of every massage was a good butt rubdown; there can be a lot of tension in the glutes. I work my way up from the ankle digging deep into the calf muscles, lightly over the back of the knee then deep again into the thigh. My inside hand goes between her legs working her inner thigh, and my other hand outside, using a back and forth motion to loosen the muscles. I find that the inner thigh area can be very sensitive. That done I continue up to her butt cheek, digging deep into the hip bone and kneading her buttock. Once done I use both hands and sweep up the entire leg from the ankle to the waist.
This is when I test out an unsure client. On the sweep up, I keep my hand inside her thigh for a bit longer each time, working my hand under the draping and getting closer to the goods before I sweep it out to join the other hand on her butt. I can usually tell by the clients' body language if she enjoys it or not. If I'm unsure I'll back off a bit. But if she seems ok I get just a bit closer on each pass. On the final pass I just barely touch her pubic area, either her pubic hair if she has any, or the soft skin next to her labia. The touch has to be very gentle, almost as if it didn't really happen. Then I rearrange the draping and do the other leg the same way. I always find this second leg to be fun, because a client knows where my hands are going to end up. I use a similar move again once she flips over to her front.
Even if I feel that I could go a bit farther, I seldom ever go with full on pussy contact the first time with a client. Unless, of course, she outright asks me to. Some do.
I've had that leg sweep/inner thigh move done to me by a masseuse and always found it erotic. So as I started to get more comfortable with my return male clients I started to incorporate a variation of that move.
At the first massage I give a new client a choice of draping. Personally I prefer to be undraped when I get and give a massage. The extra sheet just gets in the way. If a client wants to be draped, fine, but I find that over time, as they get more comfortable, they sometimes opt for no draping.
Most of the men chose to be undraped, which made it easier to do that move, but it also presented a new issue when they turned over onto their back. Dicks hang to one side; I think it is opposite to your dominant hand. It does in my case. I'm right handed and my cock hangs to the left. So I made sure to start on the opposite leg, the leg where the dick wasn't hanging. The first time I tried it out I got immediate results, in the form of an erection, even before I was done with the sweep. It only took a couple of close passes. I wasn't ready to commit to anything else, so that was a sign to back off and move back to the lower legs. And then when I started back up the other leg, their upright erection took care of the hanging issue.
