It was the summer of 2013 and looking back at it now. It was a very stressful and arduous time.
I was in the process of moving house and at the same time I was trying to get a slot for the band that I was playing in at the biggest unsigned music festival outside of Reading Leeds and Glastonbury.
It was a case of work sleep and repeat.
But tonight was rehearsal night and to be honest with you I was looking forward to seeing the guys in the band, I missed the in jokes and the banter in all honesty as it had been a while since I last seen them
So you can imagine my disappointment and utter frustration when I found out that one of the guys wasn't able to make it as he was feeling unwell. All that travelling and preparation for absolutely nothing.
But on the plus side, it meant that I had the evening to myself and I could go anywhere I wanted to. Like the gay sauna that was just a few miles away.
Besides it was on my way home and it had been at least two or three years since I enjoyed some sexual shenanigans with a guy.
I must admit that my throat went dry and my heart sped up a little as I tapped in the post code into the SatNav in my car.
When I arrived at the sauna, the receptionist at the desk greeted me with a smile and directed me to the locker room and showers.
It was my first ever trip to a gay sauna, and to say that I was nervous was an understatement.
I figured that a drink in the bar would be a good idea, just to settle the nerves a little,
when I noticed a good-looking Asian guy heading to the jacuzzi.
"Jeez he's so cute but so out of my league" I thought to myself
He was around six feet tall, slim, with dark olive skin and a nicely toned body and I couldn't help but notice the rather nice bulge that lurked under his towel.