Up until a few months ago, I was strictly a heterosexual male. I was never even curious about having sex with another man, but after a divorce and several failed relationships I decided that I needed to at least explore the possibility.
So I decided to read up on man to man sex on the internet and check out some of the porn sites to see if I had any interest. When I got hard watching gay male anal sex videos, I knew that I was on to something. It looked like the best way to see if I liked having sex with a man was to visit one of the gay bathhouses. Before I could go to one of these bathhouses, I needed to read up on what kind of behavior was acceptable and how I would attract another man.
I am 5' 9" tall and weigh 180 lbs., which is maybe a little overweight, but I go to the gym regularly and have a fairly fit and toned body. On several of the gay porn sites that I viewed, I noticed that some of the guys had their nipples pierced with silver rings in them. I kind of liked the idea, but was not sure if I wanted to go to a tattoo and piercing parlor to have it done. So, once again I read online how to do it and ordered the supplies to pierce my own nipples.
When the supplies arrived, I took off all of my clothes so as not to get any blood on them and proceeded to pierce my nipples. It was really painful, but after I was finished I kind of liked the feeling of the weight dangling from my nipples. Over the next several weeks, I enlarged the piercings until I was able to insert 6 gauge rings in both nipples. It felt great, especially when I was at the beach and other people noticed.
I thought that I was now ready to go to my first gay bathhouse and at least get some attention. I chose one in Ft. Lauderdale and headed out. I wore a muscle shirt from Gold's Gym, black running shorts and shower tongs. When I walked in there were two windows much like a bank in a small reception area. One of the guys asked if he could help me and I said that I wanted to spend about 4 hours in the bathhouse. He told me that a six month membership would cost $25 and that a private room was $20 for four hours. Since I had no idea what to expect, I said that would be fine and gave him the money.
I was given a membership card and was told that would be kept in a locked drawer along with my driver's license and any valuables. I agreed and he gave me a small white towel and a key to my room. He then pushed a button which mad a buzzing sound and told me that the door was now unlocked and I could go in to the bathhouse. Once inside there was a small counter with a bowl with condoms in it and a glass case with other products. Another guy asked me if I needed any lube, and I said that I guess so and bought a small bottle for $6.
Now it was off to my room down a hallway that was dark with a lot of doors with numbers on them. As I was looking for my number #224, I noticed all of the guys walking around with only a small white towel wrapped around their waist. Some guys were leaning up against the wall next to small rooms with the doors open. I had read online about how in bathhouse etiquette that was an invitation to another guy who might be interested in them. There were other doors open and dimly lit that had guys in them naked and sitting up on their bed with their dicks in their hand and still others that were laying naked face down.
When I finally found my room, I unlocked it, opened the door, turned on the light and closed the door behind me. It was a very small room with a small table next to a single flat bed with white sheets on it and a small pillow. My heart was racing as I began to take off my clothes and wrap the towel around my waist. I put the key to the room on my arm with the elastic band provided and walked out of my room barefoot and naked except for this small towel.
I walked around to see what this bathhouse had to offer. Outside in the private courtyard there was a pool and a large hot tub with guys swimming and tanning naked. I was already getting a "chubby" and new I was in the right place for me. There was a fitness room with all sorts of equipment, but nobody was in there. Then I came to the area where there was a sauna, steam room (grotto) and open shower area. I decided that I needed to take a shower and relieve some of the tension that I was feeling.
I hung my towel on a metal rack and turned on one of the showers and proceeded to lather myself with soap. As I was rinsing myself off a young man turned on the shower next to me. His body was almost completely hairless and he was lean and fit. I looked down at his dick and noticed a ring in it.
He looked over at me and said "Do you like it. I just had it pierced 2 months ago and I love it. I would have had my nipples pierced too like yours, but I model and it isn't allowed."
I said "It looks great! Didn't it hurt a lot?"
"No." he said. "I have been told by others that it doesn't hurt nearly as much as having your nipples pierced. Touch it if you like."
Well, he didn't have to ask me twice and as soon as I grabbed hold of his dick it became hard. He tugged on my nipple rings and put his other hand on my naked butt. I also got hard immediately. He then said that he had to go because he was meting a friend by the pool, gave me a kiss on the lips and left the shower area. I couldn't move for a moment because I was stunned by the kiss. I picked up my towel and headed naked for the steam room.
It was dimly lit and filled with steam. There were little areas with tiled benches along the way. I chose on that was unoccupied, put my towel down and sat naked on it. I sat and watched the guys walk by, some with a towel on and others completely naked. I looked to my right and there was a young guy leaning forward with his hands on the wall supporting him in the little area next to me. He was naked and bent over slightly at the waist. I looked behind him and some older guy was holding him by the hips while he was fucking him in the ass. This was the first gay sex that I had seen in person and it was hot. The young guy caught me staring at them and just looked over and smiled. He seemed to be really enjoying getting fucked.