I landed a prime job in Bangkok about a decade ago. I had to travel back and forth to NYC (where I lived with my wife and kids at the time) - it was for 3 years but worth it because it would advance my career, as it has. So I had been doing this for over a year at the time and got into a good routine - work, gym, group of friends to hang out with, etc... was not seeking out opportunity with the beautiful Thai women but I'd flirt. I was always a little concerned a coworker would see me and it would get back home or the office.
Anyway it was a Friday afternoon and I cut out of work early and had plans to meet some friends for drinks and dinner. The bar we were meeting at wasn't far away and I was proud I learned the Bangkok elevated system so I went to a nearest stop to wait.
While I was standing there on the platform waiting this young Thai guy started speaking to me in English. His name was V and asked the usually 20 questions and I politely asked in return as well.
"Hello, what are you doing in Bangkok? How long have you been here? Do you speak Thai?"
He was born and raised in Bangkok, was going to University and was hoping to have a career in banking. He was nice, better than average speaker, and we were having a nice chat while waiting for the train in the stifling heat.
So it was very surprising when he asked if I lived nearby and if I wanted to go back to my place for some sex. Of course, this was all in English so no one waiting around understood, I think, and it was flattering, but I was just surprised he was so forwarded, which in my experience was not common. So I thought about his request for a few minutes after acknowledging what he said - I was going to be early to meet my friends, I was very horny having been away from my wife for three weeks, and I was curious. So I said yes and said let's go quickly.
We walked about five minutes to the compound where I was renting an apartment and we casually walked past the guard with a nod. I was hoping since V was dressed nicely as a typical college student it would not raise suspicion.