A bathhouse is a place where men can socialize, with the reality that sex is always a chance encounter away. I am not one of those there to socialize, yet realizing that the baths are not exclusively sexual is important in realizing why they exist. Such as being a place to drink a beer among men who completely share the same interests, without needing to be furtive or ashamed when another man catches you looking at an attractive naked body.
This is in contrast to the general mood at an adult bookstore or 'straight' porn theater, where the desire for sex can create a sense that a number of those there are unwilling to acknowledge what is happening among a group of men. This is not to dismiss the addictive pleasure of a glory hole, which represents pure anonymous sexual contact, letting your horny cock slide past a willing stranger's lips after doing a hit of rush, getting blown until you fill their mouth with hot cum, body pressing against the unyielding wall, balls pumping in a gloriously focused orgasm, drained into a man's throat.
One thing about getting head from a man, after more than a decade and half of personal experience, is they always swallow, never taking their mouth away as your cock surrenders to their desire. However, a glory hole or normal porn theater simply do not offer all the possibilities found at a good bathhouse, starting with being nude in a social setting, not a secret one.
I had been vaguely aware of the local bathhouse for years, but other erotic possibilities had been more than fulfilling. It took me years before intentionally sitting in a video booth with a glory hole, cock exposed to a man as I watched him. Getting so horny even before putting my cock through the hole, knowing that it would be touched by a man.
After that, it was a while before getting head openly, so to speak, in a porn theater. Pants open, stroking watching gay group porn, shocked at how it amazing it felt to have a man bend over to have his mouth push my circled hand down my shaft, the pleasure overwhelming any thoughts about what was happening as he did, taken completely by surprise.
Another interval passed before finally having sex with another undressed man, at the same place as that first public, so to speak, blow job. The beginning was much the same, with a man going down on my cock, though we had started with mutual touching. This time, getting head was not a surprise, making no difference to how good it felt.
The second encounter revealed that this porn emporium included not only theaters but various areas with doors that could be locked. After sucking my cock almost to orgasm, he asked whether I wanted to go with him. In a daze, I stood as he did, following him into a surprisingly large room with four monitors along one wall playing porn. When he locked the door, a sense of freedom took over completely, starting with undressing.
A freedom that continued with hot sex involving our naked bodies, and an introduction to the unbelievable delight of kissing another man. Cock to cock, holding each other as our mouths pressed with equal strength, tongues exchanging roles effortlessly, this was a true peak of having sex with a man. Losing a kind of virginity, having never kissed a man before, much less with such complete sexual joy, hard cocks touching, jacking off together, by one hand or together.
After that experience, I returned a couple of times, with the limitations becoming a bit restricting, in comparison to that initial naked encounter. Finally, long term temptation became impossible to resist. After visiting a bi friend and drinking some wine with her, the evening ended early with her feeling a bit ill and going to bed after some light flirting. Knowing the bathhouse was close by, I let desire take charge.
Leading to a fantastic introduction to its delights, getting rimmed and having group oral sex in the darkroom. This was only the second time in my life getting rimmed, a fantasized belief about the baths being realized in the most incredible way. He was truly a master, his tongue enslaving me in pure bliss. Though in reality rimming is fairly rare, it is utterly addictive.
And most often found in the darkroom, which is where I went today as the beer and weed merged with horniness into the ideal bathhouse state. About to enter the darkroom, another man was several yards back. Already naked, I paused and turned profile to him, the sort of non-committal invitation that is easily recognized. It only took a moment to get the poppers out, just before someone entered.
Cock sucking followed quickly, letting the first stranger of the day go down on me in luxurious style. When his mouth left my shaft, feeling his tongue slide over my sack, in a state of quivering anticipation, legs moving wider, revealing what sort of slut I was. Soon lost in my reward, tongue on my ass, mind sinking into an animal haze of anal pleasure. His hands spread my cheeks as I lifted my legs, surrendering completely to his ass licking. My panted sounds of delight were impossible to stop, revealing how deeply he had me under his control.