Being Bi is not something you let be known when you are a male biker hanging out with guys that party with the Outlaws and other one-percenter clubs. But, Bi I am and have been for my whole life, so I've learned when and where to let the secret out.
The club I was riding with at that time would do all of the usual poker runs as well as the weekly Friday night dinner rides; and the dinner rides usually were the most fun for me, just because it got me out of the house and hanging with my friends for an evening. This one particular evening, we ended up at one of the local Chinese restaurants for dinner and we had a great time, as usual, just hanging out, eating and gabbing.
During the course of the evening, I had noticed that there were a couple of the busboys that I found to be very attractive as I was sneaking looks their way. There was one busboy in particular that I felt was so sexy that I got a hard-on from looking at him. He was about 5 feet tall, a little shorter than me, slender with features that were almost, but not quite, feminine. I had noticed him looking our way (at me?) a lot over the course of the evening. By now, my erection was enough of a problem that I had to excuse myself from the group and went to the bathroom to try to get my bulge to deflate enough to not be a noticeable problem. Once out of sight of everyone, I went down the corridor toward the bathroom when I ran, almost literally, into my sexy busboy. He immediately excused himself for almost running me down and I noticed that his gaze lingered on me afterwards. I decided then and there to just come right out and talk to him and see if he was as interested in me as I was in him.
"Listen. I saw you looking at us over there and I was wondering if maybe you might want to go riding with me after you get off work?" Okay, it was lame, but I really wasn't used to picking up guys.
"I was looking at you, but I don't have motorcycle."
"I do." I said.
He looked into my eyes and said, "You asking me what I think you asking me?"
"I am asking if you want to go on a date with me after you get off work. Tonight."
"Your friends know this about you?"
"No. And I would prefer that it stayed that way if you get what I mean."
"Yes."
"Yes, you understand or yes, you will go out with me?"
"I go out with you. Tonight. I also understand."
"Good. What time do you get off?"
"Soon. Eleven."
"Good. What's your name? Mine is Chris."
"I am Lu."
"I'll be waiting outside when you get done, Lu."
I went back to the table and finished dinner while he went about finishing his work.