I am not well endowed, but my cock is sexy AF - nicely shaped, neatly trimmed and, I imagine, really enjoyable for my wife to have in her mouth and even inside her even though I fall way short of filling her in a way that makes her lose her breath.
Now in my early 50s, i don't get hard from the wind, but to be honest, i never did; and I don't last very long either and am usually spent after cumming the first time. At least, it's very unlikely that I am ready to roll (again) 30 minutes after exploding deep inside my wife's slippery wet pussy. I just feel so satisfied, like I do after eating a delicious meal.
I am grateful for my ability to feel so good and climax so easily and I seriously don't know how any guy could last long if they felt the pleasure of my wife's sexy mouth or pussy wrapped around their cock. So, I compensate with my mind and my hands and my lips and my tongue. I love making her cum. Normally, that is when my cock is at its hardest. Her cumming is my biggest fantasy.
But as satiated and satisfied as I am with myself and my body, I know that there are guys who can fuck over and over. And I know that there are guys who have much bigger, stronger, heavier, longer and thicker cocks than I do. And I know that there are guys who get steel hard at the mere thought of sex. And I know that there are guys who cum like an erupting volcano. And I know there are guys who exude a sexual dominance and confidence and attitude that make women wet with desire.
I know there are men who would fuck my wife so good that she would tremble with pleasure like she never has with me.
And that turns me on.