I was in Reno doing a company presentation on a Friday and decided to spend the weekend and enjoy life a little. I had been divorced for a while and wanted a change of pace, so I decided that since I'd never been in a gay bar, now was as good a time as any.
I parked in the casino parking lot next door and went in as if I had been doing it all my life. The place wasn't very busy so I decided to play a little pool game I learned and have a beer. It wasn't long before a guy asked me if he could join me for a game. He was handsome and very masculine, and quite charming. The way he acted toward me made me sense that he was a strong person who might like a passive man like me.
As we played and I fumbled about, he became quite "touchy - feely" with me, showing me how to hold my cue stick and so on. He even complimented me on how soft my hands were, as he helped me get the proper grip. I even felt comfortable volunteering that, yes, I actually did use lotion on them because I liked the way it made my hands feel!
I couldn't stop myself from leaning into his gentle brushes on my legs and bottom as he leaned over me to help me get into position for the difficult shots I seemed to create for myself! I was definitely attracted to him, and I wanted him to notice. As time went by it was all I could do to control my craving for his affection without embarrassing myself in front of everyone in the place!
When it was time to take a break from the game he invited me to the bar. He put his hand on my lower back and guided me to two bar stools that were so close together we were touching. He bought us both drinks and we started chatting and getting to get to know each other better.
I began to get cold feet thinking maybe this wasn't such a good idea. I worried that I would have little control over tonight's events should they turn sexual. My original plan was only to meet someone, give them a blow job and go home. I really didn't expect to meet a man who awakened the desire in me to partake in a romantic rendezvous with him, but the idea was very exciting to me!
When I told him I probably had better get going and should head to my hotel, he looked into my eyes and put his hand on mine and said, "Please don't go."
I was very flattered that he was interested in me and wasn't afraid to show it! That simple act of interest was enough to change my mind.
I was relieved that he seemed to "take charge" again once I indicated I would stay. I had never really had a situation where a man was actually courting me. It made things really easy, and I was getting quite comfortable with the idea!
I had butterflies knowing where this might end up, and I just loved that I was being treated as a boyfriend. His touches and his romantic interest in me created a warm sexy feeling that made me want to cling to him.
I think I began to understand how a woman must feel when she is with a man she is interested in and he turns on the charm to "woo" her. I felt very attracted to him and was getting very turned on by the affection he was showing as he fawned over me. As my sexual attraction to him intensified, a soft cloak of femininity seemed to fall over me, as I was reminded by a nervous tingle that I might be soon sharing this virile man's bed. It was a pleasant role reversal that looking back now, I should not have been surprised that it came so naturally to me.
As we chatted at the bar he kept touching me and putting his hand on my upper leg as I encouraged him with my coquettish behavior. I was a little nervous about him showing this much affection to me in public, but I smiled to let him know I didn't object. In fact, I wished I had shorts on so I could have felt his naked hand touching my bare flesh! I returned his touches whenever I could.
In fact, I felt safe enough to allow my feminine side to gradually come out of hiding, as I could tell he really liked that about me. It seemed that the more feminine my reactions were to his advances, the more affection I got from him in return.
As we were finishing our drinks he leaned over and nibbled at my earlobe and asked me if I would like to join him for a glass of wine at his apartment. He had me squirming in my seat with anticipation as I smiled and told him sweetly, "I'd love to.".
When we got there he offered me some wine and turned on some soft music. I was surprised how sexually I reacted to that. The atmospherics of a man caring about me and making me comfortable was turning me on, and the soft music was like an aphrodisiac. The sexual rush I was feeling was exciting and much different from the fleeting hookups I'd had in the past!