I am a straight man, twice divorced and I've been living on my own for about 10 years now. I've had a couple of fuck buddies in that time but nothing that lasted very long. I watch porn and masturbate probably more often than I should, but I'm not hurting anybody so I don't worry too much about it, but something happened recently and it has changed my whole outlook.
I was lounging around my bedroom one recent afternoon, surfing through some porn trying to decide what kind of a mood I was in when I got a text from a male friend of mine that said he was nearby and wanted to know if I wanted to smoke a little weed. I accepted the invitation and he said he'd be by in about 10 minutes. That gave me a little time to let my hard-on subside from my porn surfing. I can jerk off whenever I want but weed only comes by every once in a while.
My friend, Stan, showed up as expected and we sat around the living room and shot the shit for a little while. Finally, Stan pulled out a bag of weed and I suggested we go back to my room where I keep my bong. I like to keep the smoking to just the one room so it doesn't smell up the whole house. We sat down on my king bed and we each took a couple of huge bong hits.
My TV still had porn paused on the screen and we started to flip through it, comparing girls, giving opinions on various positions and generally critiquing scenes. We smoked some more weed, continued to comment on the porn and time had taken on that weird way of making 5 minutes seem like an hour. We had kicked back on one arm and had become glued to the TV screen.
At some point, I became VERY aware that I had a throbbing hard-on, and the worst part was that I was in pajama pants with no underwear, so I just had a big tent going on that was just out there for everybody to see. Stan laughed a little, pointed to his jeans that had what appeared to be a pulsating bulge in it and said, "That's what we get for layin' around gettin' high and watching porn!" I laughed as well and we went back to watching.