I was in my late 40's and trapped in a bad marriage. Fortunately, I travelled extensively for business as I was in the consulting business and was able to escape frequently. I had just started to re-explore mi bisexuality - I had some experience in college but nothing until quite recently. I had discovered gay chat rooms and had arranged hook-ups while on the road, but I had never picked a guy up.
I was supervising an engagement in Chicago where one of the team members was a young fellow named Steven. He was in his late twenties but looked 10 years younger, he had a real baby face and looked like he hadn't even started shaving. Steven had a slight build and blonde hair with green eyes. I had picked up some signals from him that he might be gay. He looked so cute that I couldn't stop thinking about being in bed with him.
I invited him to go out to dinner with me to discuss the job. I told him to swing by my hotel suite at 6:30. At 6:20, I ordered an adult movie from the hotel's pay per view - it was a bisexual male film featuring two guys and a girl. I then jumped in the shower and had just gotten out when I heard a knock on the door. Wrapping a towel around myself, I answered it and told Steven to hang on a bit since I was running late. I told him to get a drink from the mini-bar and that I would be ready soon.
I watched him notice the movie and could see he was turned on by it. Still wearing only a towel, I walked into the room and said, "Oh, I'm sorry, forgot that was still on".