My first real same sex experience, came when I was attending a community college in Los Angeles and working in a restaurant called The Tides, which no longer exists, as a bus boy making $40 per day between wages and tips, we of course only reported wages and a small amount of tips so as not to pay much in taxes. Since my parents were paying for my school and living expenses the money that I made was disposable money, or fun money. Of course other jobs came every now and then working private parties that paid better than $40 and we took advantage of those.
My friend Mike, the only natural-born white American who worked with me, asked me one day if I wanted to make $50 in about 5 minutes. I said I did but first I wanted to find out something about the proposition. He said that I had met John and rode in his convertible to the beach with other people and he had told the guys that wanted to listen that he was gay and would give any good looking guy a blowjob and pay fifty dollars. It sounded rather exotic to me and I agreed to go with Mike to John's apartment and take it from there.
I remember John immediately as soon as I saw him, he was a gorgeous white gay guy that had a convertible Cadillac and would drive guys to the beach on weekends so we could talk to girls and get lucky. I didn't get lucky but some busboys and waiters working in the restaurant did, or at least knew how to lie about it.
We arrived at John's apartment and after saying hello, he looked at us up and down and he took Mike into his bedroom, where Mike later said John gave him a very quick blowjob and paid him $50. When John came back into the living room, John rudely told Mike to go home, Mike did so in a bad mood, I didn't ask any questions as it wasn't on my business. Later I found out Mike came as soon as John touched him.
John treated me totally different, he gave me a beer and we both relaxed and talked for almost an hour watching TV before anything happened. That gave me enough time to relax. When I was totally at ease he took me gently by the hand guiding me to his bedroom where he put me on my back in the middle of his bed. He played soft romantic music and lit a couple of candles. I felt amazingly comfortable with him and told him that I was looking so forward to enjoying what we were about to do. John told me I didn't have to do anything, just enjoy what was going to happen, and I could tell him to stop if I felt uncomfortable with anything. While lying in the middle of the bed I thought of a girl named Marta, who I could just watch for an exceptionally long time. Those thoughts of her dissipated within minutes and I was totally into John.