After waiting an entire week, I went back to the glory hole, since it seems a pretty hard thing to resist, at least after my first two shared experiences. The variety of porn you find in a video booth has always been something wonderful since the 80s, though the Internet offers the same now. But the idea of a glory hole is a more recent interest, and during the last couple of years, and now weeks, my interest grew. After reaching a couple of delightful peaks, it is now somewhat sated.
The third time with a man would probably be very familiar to a woman, in its way - he got off, then left. Obviously, the game has a number of variations, and sharing is not necessarily a major part for some people. However, I like to play with others, since sharing pleasure is a good way to increase it. But men can just get off and leave, and there is certainly no reason to think men would treat men any different than women. Then add in the entire gay/not gay perspective, and twists and kinks are assured, apart from the normal run of human nature.
After all, I go to a glory hole to get off, because watching others jack off to porn turned me on when I was a teenager, and nostalgia is a powerful force when older. Getting off has remained a fairly constant interest, and it seemed time to try something new, if not unimagined. Getting off with another man has certainly played a part in some of my fantasies. But the question of whether this is gay or some role being played is not really that pressing. And the first two times getting off with another man, there wasn't that much of anything involved apart from the pleasure our cocks felt. Speaking now from experience, we all enjoyed our shared orgasms with hot cum spurting beyond control until nothing more could be squeezed from our contentedly stroked and shrinking cocks. And we left without ever meeting. One of the stranger kinky aspects of a glory hole is imagining whether some man you meet or see shared his cock with you.
The facelessness of a glory hole is also a weakness, of course. What can be a delight in cumming hard and fast can also be simply used, since there are no obligations at all there. That is one of the reasons they exist, and are so hot. But even Paradise has to have peaks and valleys.