I was in my mid-40's and my marriage had been going south for some time. I travelled a great deal for business which I found to be a welcome respite from my home life. I surfed the web from my various hotel rooms and soon became addicted to adult chat sites. It did take me long to find my way into a gay chat room. I had some experience with gay sex in my late teens and early twenties but had not indulged my bi side for over 20 years.
I started with erotic chat with various guys and graduated to phone sex. It only left me yearning for something more. One of the sites I frequented let you post personal ads so I posted an ad looking for a hook-up during an upcoming trip to the DC area. I did not get too specific about what I wanted to do.
Gary answered my ad. Like me, he had experimented in college and longed to try man sex again. He was about 15 years younger than me but said he liked older men. He described himself as a little shorter than average and slender. We exchanged e-mails and arranged to meet in the bar of my hotel.
I nervously twirled the ice in my whisky glass as I waited for him to appear. I had given him a pretty good description of myself right down to describing the shirt I would be wearing. At precisely the agreed time, he appeared in front of me and said "Tom?" I looked up at a very handsome 30 something who stood about 5'-7", a very slender body and brown hair and eyes.
He ordered a drink and we chatted, nervously at first but we gradually became more comfortable with each other. "Well," I said, "shall we do it?" He concurred and I gave him my room number and asked him to wait 5 minutes and come up.