I was around 40 at the time, and just made friends with a guy I met at work. We had just started hanging out together some, actually just twice so far. He was around 30, married with no kids, and his wife worked the evening shift, 3 to 11. Jimmy and I both worked day shift. So, Jimmy had a lot of free time in the evenings. I was single at the time, and was dating around some, but not anything steady yet. I was just in the "looking stage." So, I had a lot of free time as well.
On this particular evening, Jimmy came over to my house, and while we were talking he asked "Hey, can I ask you a personal question?"
I said "Sure. I am an open guy, what is on your mind?"
He said "Well, my wife wants me to shave my cock, balls, and ass for her. I keep it trimmed fairly well, but, I have never tried to shave all of it. I know there are a lot of women and guys in this day and age that do that, do you do that?"
I said "Yep, I sure do."
Jimmy asked "How long have you done it, and why do you do that?"
I said "I have done it for about 5 years or so. I don't like the look of hair down there. I think guys look better with no hair on their private parts. Plus, I like how it feels on me. This may sound goofy, but I feel more naked when I keep it that way."
I could tell Jimmy was thinking about what I said because he responded with "Hmmm," and then was staring off and not saying anything for a moment. Finally, he said "So, you like how it feels?"
I said "Yes I do. I like, both how it looks and how it feels."
He was still deep in thought but finally asked "Do the women you date like that?"
I said "With some of the women it surprises them, but I haven't had any of them complain yet. The majority of them love how it looks. Plus, most of them make comments about how they like not having to deal with hair during sex.
Then I told him "For me, I feel like I can feel everything on my skin so much better. Since we are being open, I will tell you this, I sleep naked. I have a body pillow that I sleep with, and I love draping a leg over it. It feels really good up against my shaved, naked skin. In fact, since I am being open here, I might as well tell you that when I am home alone I stay nude around the house about 90% of the time. If you were not here, I would be naked right now. Some people call that "home nudists."
He said "Hmmm, interesting," and then got quiet again as you could tell he was thinking a lot about each thing I told him.
I finally said "So, you are not so sure about this idea?"
"No, I guess it is just new to me." he said. "I know some guys do it, but it almost seems feminine to me. I mean if I was with a bunch of guys in a gym and we were taking a shower together, I think I would be embarrassed for them to see me shaved."
I said "Well, first of all, I can't think of the last time I have been showering around a bunch of guys. High school days, maybe? But, even still, probably at least one third or one half of those guys would probably be shaved. It wouldn't bother me for a guy to see me shaved."
He again was staring off as if he was in deep thought.
I said "Come on, spit it out. What are you thinking?"
He said "Nah, you would think it is too weird."
I said "I am a very open person. People can talk to me about anything. It is no big deal."
He paused, then said "You sure? I can say anything?"
I said "Yes, just say it."
He said "Well, show me what you look like naked. I want to see the shaved look."
I said "That is fine with me if that is what you want. But, just so you know, I am a bit of an exhibitionist, and there is a chance I will get hard while showing you. If you are okay with that, then
I will do it."
Jimmy said "Tell me what exhi, or whatever that word you used, means."
I said "Well, it means I get turned on allowing people to see me naked, especially the ones who ask me to get naked for them."
Jimmy then asked "You aren't one of those guys that wears a trench coat and flashes people in the mall, are you?"
I laughed and said "Of course not."
Then Jimmy asked "Well where do you get to be exhibit..., or whatever that word is, at?"
I said "Well, one way is I like to get online on my webcam, in a chatroom. I love to start by being dressed and then being asked to do things for the person who is watching me. I love it when they tell me what to do, like unbutton and unzip your jeans for me. I love to be slowly stripped that way. Anyway, all of that is a big turn on for me."
He said "You mean you find girls to do that?"
I said "Well, to be honest, I don't care if it is a girl or guy. I just love doing what people ask me to do in regards to stripping for them or playing with myself."
Jimmy said "Gosh, when I started this conversation I never thought it would go down this road. But, I have to admit, it is interesting." Then he asked "Do you watch guys too?"
I said "Yes, the ones who are shaved and not overweight. I enjoy seeing them naked. Don't get me wrong, I am not gay, nor would I consider myself bi. I just enjoy getting turned on, and seeing other people turned on. All of that stuff is fun for me. I guess I am more of a pleasure person. I love being turned on and seeing other people turned on. It takes care of my sexual appetite."