I found one way to connect with other men looking for some fun was on chat lines on the phone. There were a few that were free although many charged for the service and you could get on and find others interested in the same thing you were interested in.
The particular time I'm thinking about started off as many of them did with me getting an invitation to talk with another guy about what it was we were looking for. During the course of the first few minutes it became clear that he was looking for a man to come over and give him a blow job. He made it clear that he was not into reciprocating just wanting the relief of getting off in someone's mouth. We talked about it for a while with him asking me questions about how much experience I had.
I was in my mid-thirties by now and had been with dozens of men both as a sucker and as one getting sucked. Many times we would pleasure each other but there were also lots of times when I had provided oral relief to other men with no return of the favour.
He told me he was in his late 40's and described himself for me. He said he was 6ft tall about 200 lbs half bald, wore glasses and was mostly grey haired. He also said he had a 7 inch cut cock and large hanging balls. We talked about what he liked to do with guys and he said all he had ever done was get blowjobs and that that was all he was interested in.
We talked about that sort of thing over a few nights and also about how old we were when we had started. It turned out that like myself he had first been introduced to male sex in his late teens and had kept going back for more form time to time ever since. Finally after probably 2 or three hours of talking over much of a week he agreed to meet. We set up a time and he gave me his address. The meeting was to take place the next day around dinner time.