I was starting to think grindr was a waste. I've deleted it dozens of times. I decided to give it another try. It's tough when you can't host and worry about being outed. I had the itch and hadn't been with a man in years until I met John.
I'm sure it's not his Thai name but its the name he gave me. He spoke very little English and told me he used google translator. He is about 5' 6" on the slim side. Im a bit of a bear at 5'6" 200 lbs with a hairy and pretty much all bottom. John listed himself as a top. We are both late 50's
I tapped him and he answered. He told me "come now" but i cannot get away late night. He works at an Asian restaurant 6 days a week day and night. We bantered back and forth for several days and agreed to meet on a Monday, his day off.
I still was not sure if this was for real and was skeptical. I asked him to come outside when i got there. I was happily surprised when I saw the guy in the pics come outside.