At age 25 hiking has become my favorite form of exercise. The fresh air, the hot sun, the peaceful surroundings and scenery are a far cry from the skyscrapers, asphalt lots, traffic and crowds of pedestrians in the city. The stationery bikes, elliptical and chlorinated pool at the gym had become a thing of the past thanks to COVID.
A recent Saturday morning saw me and my longtime bestie Matt Lawton hiking the trail to Wet Beaver Creek. Though he walks a long distances, he's generally found at city parks or on sidewalks.
We had met in high school as seniors on the varsity baseball team. He pitched. I played short stop. A casual friendship that began with chats about baseball and classes gradually deepened as personal information came out.
About 3 and a half miles into our hike we came to a clear, cold, deep pool known as "The Crack". The watering hole is surrounded by a sandstone formation and shady trees that seem to grow out of the rocks.
Sweat soaked my teeshirt. Though my breathing was normal, my body felt clammy.
"That was a grueling walk, wasn't it?"
I gave him a nod then said "You'll get use to it. The first hundred miles are the hardest."
He grinned at my response then found a spot where he plopped down.
I sat beside him. He turned his head letting his lips touch mine. The kiss was tentative then he backed away. My gaze remained fixed on him.
We kissed again, this time pouring years pent up passion into the embrace.
"I've wanted to do that since twelfth grade."
"But you didn't," I replied in a matter of fact tone.
"I couldn't until I saw the way you look at me when you thought I didn't notice."
A lot of memories had been stored away over the 7 years that we've known one another. The baseball practices, playing the games on Friday night, hanging out, riding our rides and playing chess all strengthened the bond. There was the small talk, his quips and the laughter. We came of age and sat in barrooms drinking beers together. We celebrated the wedding of his brother Jason at a strip club. Through it all neither of us could express any feelings deeper than friendship until we did.
I took a deep breath then spoke freely. "I've known for a long time that I'm gay so I started seeing a psychiatrist, doctor Alan Dayton."
"Was it helpful?"
"Very helpful," I replied. "He's gay."
"Is he an old guy, a young guy?"
"I'd say he's in his 40s. He's X military."
"Sounds like you guys got to know each other," Matt replied.