We lived in the Midlands UK and my ex wife who at this time was 36, she was your average looking redhead, not particularly pretty but different, nice figure almost seductive look with her dark very narrow eyes and deep husky voice she came across as what I suppose you would call a temptress and even though she was not particularly confident when at parties or events men would hover around her like bees round an honey pot. She was prudish on the surface but underneath not so prudish. I think if I knew then what I know now things would have been different but that came down to my naivety. She was brought up in a middle class family and seemed very respectable and interested in living your average everyday life of a Mother and housewife something of which she did very well. I think to describe her sexually would be that she had sex because she thought it to be her duty, we talked about her with other men during sex but on reaching her climax the subject became taboo, when under the influence of alcohol she would become aroused very easily and I would be guaranteed sex she would flirt with other men and enjoyed the attention, her confidence would rise but saying that she would drink very little unless we were going out dancing or some similar activity and then she would drink whatever was put in front of her.
We had a friend he was about 27 who we had known for a few years and who always fancied her, he always flirted with her he was a bit of a clown and I could not help but laugh even though I knew he fancied her like hell but never said anything it was more of a fantasy the thought of him and her, she would cut his hair on a monthly basis when he would spend most his time making her laugh or flirting. He was average looking guy who had just finished in a long term relationship.