My husband and I have an incredible life and an even better sex life! We have been married for 14 years and I can honestly say that each year has been even better than the year before. We have continually found ways to make things better, more exciting, spicier, if you will.
We often have "bedroom" talk about being with another couple or man or woman. The thought appeals to me in several ways, but it has never been more than that...talk. It's fun and we both enjoy it very much! But it has left me wondering...where do we go from here? Men are very visual as most of you already know, so I had begun to question whether the "talking" would be enough. I had been considering ways to make this talking fantasy a reality. But, it's a little nerve-racking. How do you ask someone to join you in the bedroom? Should I even ask them, or set it up so that it just happens? So many questions and I am sure he had been thinking the same thing. I knew my husband would be 100% on board, so this would be left to me. Would it ever happen or continue to be just a fantasy we talk about in the bedroom from time to time?
It was a warm June day when I decided to make this happen one way or another. I thought and thought about how to set up the perfect scenario so that it wouldn't feel staged. We had often talked about several possibilities for who we might want to join us and ultimately I decided that another couple was our best option. If either couple was uncomfortable we could just watch each other, which is really hot too.
We invited some friends, Jason and Katie, to our lake house for the weekend. They have been there with us several times before and were excited about a little getaway. Although they are very close friends, the subject of swapping has never come up. There had been a few conversations here and there that turned to sex, but they were very brief.
My husband, Mike, had no idea of my plan which made it all that more exciting for me. We got there Friday evening and decided to take a quick trip around the lake before dinner. I thought I would somehow work sex into the conversation the first night we were there and see what happened on the second night. I mean, we were already half naked with just our swimsuits anyway! Really, I was so nervous, I had no idea what I was going to do. So, we got on the boat and I thought my best first approach would be to talk about how great Katie looked in her new swimsuit...which was definitely the truth, she did look fantastic. She works out with a trainer several times a week and it really shows. Jason looked great as well. Mid-30's looks great on both of them. Jason is lean with hard muscles, but is still your everyday working man. He works out and competes in triathlons and does a lot of running.
We all jumped in the boat and took off. It was a beautiful evening and was still 80+ degrees so the breeze felt great!! I sat next to Katie at the front of the boat while the guys enjoyed some beer and drove us around the lake. I told Katie how great she looked. She is quite modest about her looks, but she has long blonde hair that was whipping in the wind. She had on a hot pink bikini that looked fantastic next to her perfectly tanned skin. I was afraid of being too over the top, so I backed off the compliments.
We spent the rest of the boat ride talking about work and our husbands, all the while I was glancing at her awesome body and would sneak peaks at Jason too. We got back to the cabin, had dinner and enjoyed some cocktails and easy conversation. I was very horny and wanted to make this happen even more. But, I just wasn't sure how. It was getting late so the four of us decided to head to bed and then tomorrow have fun on the lake.
