My wife was reading this forum and suggested that I post our story here, so here it goes.
My wife and I were coming up on our fifth wedding anniversary and she suggested that we take a trip with just the two of us. We are both on our second marriage and we both have a child from our previous marriage. We normally travel with them, so it was a little of an unusual request for her but it also made sense being that it was our 5 year anniversary. Our children are older so letting them stay with their respective other parent was an easy solution to being able to travel alone. When we travel I usually go along for the ride, meaning my wife does most of the planning. That isn't to say I am a pacifist in the relationship, I am just fine to defer travel planning to her and I trust her opinions on what we will both enjoy. She told me she found a resort in Mexico that was adults only and geared toward "the sexually liberated."
I asked what that meant and she explained that based on what she read it wasn't like one of the famous Jamaican sex resorts, but that it was adults only and that the people that go tend to be uninhibited, there are very few rules including clothing optional, and from what she read people go there to have fun. I was a little confused and asked what she had hoped to get out of it. We have a good marriage and I thought we were both very happy and satisfied (an opinion my wife later strongly affirmed on her end too), so I wasn't sure what she was suggesting this for. I was kind of thrown off a little bit and also nervous about agreeing since I didn't know what to expect. She just said she didn't know and wasn't sure herself, but that she thought it might be fun to try. I asked her what trying meant, and she just said going there and experiencing the environment. I asked what I should prepare myself for, meaning did she have any possible outcomes in mind. I think I was probably sounding insecure, so I stopped the line of questions.
Later that night we were having a glass of wine after dinner and my wife said that if I was uncomfortable we would do something else. I said I didn't know whether to be comfortable or uncomfortable because she wasn't explaining what she was hoping to do on this trip. She then said that she thought it might be fun to try going topless in public. She then asked if I would be okay with that. I thought about it and reasoned that we would be around people that we would never see again, and I thought it might be kind of erotic and maybe stimulating to see my wife naked in front of other people. I asked if she would have any expectations of me, and said I didn't want to be nude in public. Not that I am miniscule or anything but I definitely don't meet the threshold for public nudity.
So we agreed to go. As the date neared I was looking forward but also getting nervous. I think I was feeling insecure more than anything. My dick isn't embarrassingly small when it is hard, maybe kind of a small average, but when it's soft it can go from okay to something that I definitely wouldn't want anyone seeing. And I was getting worried that she would try to get me to go nude. I reinforced to her that I didn't want to do that and she said she was completely fine with that. On the plane we talked about rules, what we would and wouldn't do. And as the flight went on, and we had more airplane bottles, we got more and more relaxed with the rules. It became a 5 hour foreplay session.
When we got to the hotel the vibe was very casual and easy going. I noticed that the resort staff were themselves dressed in a sexy way, which created a vibe. As we walked in I looked out to the left where there was a pool and I could see that a lot of people were naked. I couldn't see well due to where the sun was (in my face) but I could make out the general outline.
It was getting late in the day - maybe a half an hour before sunset, but it was still very hot out so my wife suggested that we go down to the pool and hang out at the pool bar for a while. We got ourselves set up in our room and headed down. The regular bar was packed but the swim up bar had a few open seats so we went in the water and went over to it. When we sat down, I noticed that the area that the bartenders made the drinks was up a few steps, and they would drop down a few steps to bring you your drink. I got to thinking about what a strange setup it was, and then I realized that it was designed to put the bartender's asses at your eye level, and I also noticed it was a very attractive bartending team. Both the women and the men. I definitely didn't object to the view, and before we knew it we were a few drinks in. There must have been a shift change or something since the people that were around the bar were slowly disappearing and there was a new group coming in.